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I haven't read any of the responses beyond maybe a handful but just my 2 cents:

I'd try it if I were you. Living abroad is harder and harder the closer you get to marriage and a family plus if you need the work for teaching now is your chance. I'd tell her youd commit to 12 months then decide what direction to go in. You'll gain some valuable life experience and you never know how you'll feel afterwards. Worst case you end the relationship.

I know you feel shes being unreasonable but in your response you said your reason for not wanting to try it is that you're close with your family... so you should understand where shes coming from right?

It's tough you both have a great reason to end this amicably and that's unfortunate but life isnt always fair and the timing isnt always right.

When you say shes the one that has to decide not you... it works both ways though. Is she deciding to go without you or are you deciding to not take a risk and follow her?

I guess that's how I'd see it but then again thsts not my situation. I'd hate to look back in 10 years and wish I'd have taken the chance. Maybe I'm a hopeless romantic. Or an idiot.

Edit - I just realized you're one of the guys from the NBA threads so ya I mean negative note tuning in at 4am just to watch the good games on a weekday would suck major ass