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TopicI need to vent about a relationship issue and cant talk to others [Blogfaqs]
BlueCrystalTear
08/03/19 11:03:18 PM
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Her: Which does she want more - you, or to live in Portugal? At this point, it sounds like the former.
You: Which do you want more - her, or to not live in Portugal?

I don't think you can answer your questions until you've given living there a chance. And if this girl is worth it - and since you've been with her for so long, it definitely sounds like she is - you might find a way to be happy over there. And if not... well, is there a way she can figure out how to be happy in Canada? If neither of you is able to find that happiness in each others' homeland, then unfortunately this must be broken off.

You might have to give it a go, especially given how there's no employment holding you to where you are at present. You could teach abroad for two years and then, if you're still unhappy over there and she can't fix it, maybe you could get a job closer to home.

Regardless, this is going to be painful, and I wish you the best of luck, man.
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