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Granted it's not as much of a culture change but I moved to the US from the UK because my ex-wife didn't want to live in England. I originally agreed to do it on the proviso that we would move back to England after 2-3 years if I didn't like it or was homesick. It is now 7 years later, we have been split up for 3+ years and I am still happily living in the US and have no plans of moving back to England (I visit once a year).

Obviously not the exact same as you as there's a language change and it seems she isn't willing to consider that possibility? I would say worst case it is worth trying the move over there. If you love her, you should probably be willing to try the unknown and see what happens. Seems silly to throw away a long term relationship over something that is unknown