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Topic	Am I freaking out over this girl not messaging back? Or should I follow up.
secretmember 07/02/19 12:34:53 AM #16:	Lost_All_Senses posted... secretmember posted... I hear you buddy. I had met a girl through a friend. She was gorgeous and was easy to talk to. Wed blow up each others phones. Then one night she stopped responding to my messages. She ghosted me for several days. Long story short, it went nowhere. Unfortunately these things happen. Looking back Im sure she found a guy that kept her plenty busy while ignoring my messages. Either way I found it was best to let that ship sail and wished her well. Its a part of life. It does suck but its really nothing you should dwell on. Youll move on and with the right attitude be better for it. Do you take any responsibility for blowing things up bigger in your head than they were in your head tho? Guys not being able to accept women as just friends is a huge part of the problem. Imagine looking for a friend but you can't cause everyone gets mad you won't fuck them...sounds pretty pathetic on the mans side. Though there are some bros to hos out there :3 Ive never put myself in a position to confuse a friendship with a female for something it isnt. I have a few female friends and we hang out together every now and then. If anything Ive had other people insist I take the next step and ask one of them out but Im comfortable just having a platonic relationship with them. They occasionally ask me if Im dating anyone yet. It could be their own curiosity or maybe its a hint for me to get. I couldnt tell you. Going back to my story: In this particular case my friend actually insisted I talk to his friend as she had a bad track record with guys and she was looking to meet someone and he thought Id be a good match with her. The ironic part is I ended up liking her way more than I thought I would have as I was initially hesitant to even get to know her lol --- "You guys... sure have guts. You know how high this cliff is...!?" (FF VIII, Laguna, after pushing his friends in the sea) <cite>secretmember posted [p:924128171] in Am I freak... [t:77833570]...</cite> <quote><cite>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote><cite>secretmember posted...</cite> <quote>I hear you buddy. I had met a girl through a friend. She was gorgeous and was easy to talk to. Wed blow up each others phones. Then one night she stopped responding to my messages. She ghosted me for several days. Long story short, it went nowhere. Unfortunately these things happen. Looking back Im sure she found a guy that kept her plenty busy while ignoring my messages. Either way I found it was best to let that ship sail and wished her well. Its a part of life. It does suck but its really nothing you should dwell on. Youll move on and with the right attitude be better for it.</quote> Do you take any responsibility for blowing things up bigger in your head than they were in your head tho? Guys not being able to accept women as just friends is a huge part of the problem. Imagine looking for a friend but you can't cause everyone gets mad you won't fuck them...sounds pretty pathetic on the mans side. Though there are some bros to hos out there :3</quote> Ive never put myself in a position to confuse a friendship with a female for something it isnt. I have a few female friends and we hang out together every now and then. If anything Ive had other people insist I take the next step and ask one of them out but Im comfortable just having a platonic relationship with them. They occasionally ask me if Im dating anyone yet. It could be their own curiosity or maybe its a hint for me to get. I couldnt tell you. Going back to my story: In this particular case my friend actually insisted I talk to his friend as she had a bad track record with guys and she was looking to meet someone and he thought Id be a good match with her. The ironic part is I ended up liking her way more than I thought I would have as I was initially hesitant to even get to know her lol --- "You guys... sure have guts. You know how high this cliff is...!?" (FF VIII, Laguna, after pushing his friends in the sea)</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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