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Topic	Is marriage counseling a waste of time/money?
emblem boy 06/25/19 2:02:05 PM #49:	Cleo_II posted... emblem boy posted... When you guys are saying you'd scream back and forth with your SO, do you mean literally scream? I've been with my gf for almost 2 years now, and just based on my personality, I don't scream at all. There have been 2 times when my gf has screamed because of anger or other emotional stuff, and just that made me doubt the relationship greatly. We raise voices but generally dont scream. But I have done it. I can probably count it on one hand in the 8 years together. I dont know the circumstances that made her scream but have you talked about how you feel when she does? Ya, it happened early on and hasn't happened again. It's definitely not something I am fine with. It confused me for a while though because I find it hard to know what's "normal" or what should be expected from a SO. From people that know me, I'm very calm and soft spoken, and things just don't bother me much. but I know i shouldn't have that same expectation for everyone. I shouldn't expect everyone to deal with stress, frustration, or anger like I do, but I mean, there a limit of how I want my SO to act. --- Posted with GameRaven 3.5.1 <cite>emblem boy posted [p:923827880] in Is marriag... [t:77817610]...</cite> <quote><cite>Cleo_II posted...</cite> <quote><cite>emblem boy posted...</cite> <quote> When you guys are saying you'd scream back and forth with your SO, do you mean literally scream? I've been with my gf for almost 2 years now, and just based on my personality, I don't scream at all. There have been 2 times when my gf has screamed because of anger or other emotional stuff, and just that made me doubt the relationship greatly.</quote> We raise voices but generally dont scream. But I have done it. I can probably count it on one hand in the 8 years together. I dont know the circumstances that made her scream but have you talked about how you feel when she does?</quote> Ya, it happened early on and hasn't happened again. It's definitely not something I am fine with. It confused me for a while though because I find it hard to know what's "normal" or what should be expected from a SO. From people that know me, I'm very calm and soft spoken, and things just don't bother me much. but I know i shouldn't have that same expectation for everyone. I shouldn't expect everyone to deal with stress, frustration, or anger like I do, but I mean, there a limit of how I want my SO to act. --- Posted with GameRaven 3.5.1</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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