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s0nicfan posted...

I've heard children described as the "biggest mistake I'll never regret."

We debated having kids for quite some time. But being in our early 30s it was eventually a "now or never" mentality and we just threw caution to the wind when having sex and let nature take its course.

I'm not going to say that I regret bringing the boys into the world. I don't know what the future holds for them. And I haven't done anything remarkable with my life so in the end they will be my lasting legacy on this world. I do love them and they are cute and funny a fair amount of the time. They're actually not that bad and only really cry when hungry or if they hurt themselves. They're also very handsome boys. So we got lucky with that too.

But their presence and the requirements needed to raise them has brought a tremendous amount of strain on my marriage and finances lol.
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Perfectly balanced.