LogFAQs > #923819400

Having kids will drive a colossal wedge between you and your spouse for the first couple years. Kids are so disruptive it's insane that people continue to have more after one or even two rounds of breeding.

Some people adjust better than other. But in my experience with two children 7 years apart, it was completely disruptive and almost destructive of the husband/wife relationship.

My best advice is don't afraid to argue, just get that shit out in the open and don't let it fester. Usually both husband and wife are stressed from the extra responsibility and both feeling like they are doing more and getting less. Not to mention date nights are gone or way less and personal alone time is reduced to almost nothing.

Not to mention the pregnancy experience is hard on BOTH the husband and wife. More so, no one even thinks about all the crap the guy is dealing with through the pregnancy (which is more often than not A LOT).

So yeah from pregnancy, to birth, to raising an infant/toddler your world is going to be fucked up for about 3 years easy.
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