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not married but my brothers say it each saved their marriage. mainly because they argue and fight and dont take the time to resolve it. the group is trust and community. the one they do isnt just a gathering to talk every week, they have valentines day balls (dine and dance) and other couples events throughout the year. they they go on a cruise in there somewhere too. theyre really involved with marriage counseling as they sponsor couples every year it seems.

my brother got our newly wed brother to go. hes uber resistant but his wife wanted to go. its opening his eyes to say the least.

one of my oldercousin cheated on his wife and they separated. he regrets getting caught cheating but also mentioned what couldve been if someone told him about marriage counseling.

sometimes you need the support of others who have lived and experienced what the marriage is going through to get and move on past the shallow interactions and engage in deeper meaningful conversations to effectively work on the marriage. because the work doesnt stop after your vows.
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