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Topic	Gf just broke up with me. Dunno what to do.
ThyCorndog 05/27/19 1:19:26 PM #147:	cuttin_in_farm posted... ThyCorndog posted... just realize (like I have, and it's been hard to do so) that you don't miss her, you miss how she made you feel. she's not special and there's more girls out there that will make you feel the same way without all this bullshit and hurt that follows I dunno. I feel like I definitely miss her. I tried to hang out three of my closer friends recently. One never responded to my text. One made plans, but their phone wont receive texts when I follow up, while the third just canceled last minute today. Everyone else is entirely unreliable at anything, and Im feeling more and more dread as days go by. I tried to occupy my day by just being by myself today. And besides running with my dog, I realize just now all I did was run errands for myself. Which isnt any different from my codependent relationships of days past. Im trying really hard not to text her, but when shes the only one who reciprocates, its extremely hard. Work sucks. My computer that had all my writing and journaling just died. And I feel like she left at quite possibly the worst time. Im literally blogfaqing now. I know how you feel cause I've just been there. My friends were being shit and not there for me when I needed them most (after she left me). You have to acknowledge that you're lonely and then ask yourself if the temporary relief you get from talking to her is worth prolonging the hurt you feel from thinking about her. Cause the only way you'll start thinking less about her is to not constantly remind yourself about the fact she exists. You're going to automatically think about her anyway, and constantly looking at her social media or talking to her is just making it so you'll never stop thinking about her. Plus ask yourself how you're going to feel when you start seeing her or hearing about her with other guys? Are you gonna be able to handle that in the state you're in? --- https://imgur.com/6cPXvLN <cite>ThyCorndog posted [p:922433729] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>cuttin_in_farm posted...</cite> <quote><cite>ThyCorndog posted...</cite> <quote>just realize (like I have, and it's been hard to do so) that you don't miss her, you miss how she made you feel. she's not special and there's more girls out there that will make you feel the same way without all this bullshit and hurt that follows</quote> I dunno. I feel like I definitely miss her. I tried to hang out three of my closer friends recently. One never responded to my text. One made plans, but their phone wont receive texts when I follow up, while the third just canceled last minute today. Everyone else is entirely unreliable at anything, and Im feeling more and more dread as days go by. I tried to occupy my day by just being by myself today. And besides running with my dog, I realize just now all I did was run errands for myself. Which isnt any different from my codependent relationships of days past. Im trying really hard not to text her, but when shes the only one who reciprocates, its extremely hard. Work sucks. My computer that had all my writing and journaling just died. And I feel like she left at quite possibly the worst time. Im literally blogfaqing now.</quote> I know how you feel cause I've just been there. My friends were being shit and not there for me when I needed them most (after she left me). You have to acknowledge that you're lonely and then ask yourself if the temporary relief you get from talking to her is worth prolonging the hurt you feel from thinking about her. Cause the only way you'll start thinking less about her is to not constantly remind yourself about the fact she exists. You're going to automatically think about her anyway, and constantly looking at her social media or talking to her is just making it so you'll never stop thinking about her. Plus ask yourself how you're going to feel when you start seeing her or hearing about her with other guys? Are you gonna be able to handle that in the state you're in? --- https://imgur.com/6cPXvLN</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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