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cuttin_in_farm posted...

De Evolution posted...

Go out by yourself and interact with people.

Don't tell me you're a grown adult who needs other people to have any fun or interaction.

Make friends, clique up with strangers, be social.

Where?

At this age, people already have friend circles. People already have their group they are safe making weekend plans with. Some lone stranger is not going to somehow infiltrate.

I know you dont do this. Yet you glibly think its somehow good advice.

Next thing you tell me is to join a hobby/club/group. As if those are just everywhere while also being open weekends since I work workdays.

I am a grown adult who cannot have fun constantly alone, yes. My primary source of enjoyment is seeing the enjoyment of others. Sue the hell out of me for having a personality defect I guess.

Talking to strangers isnt difficult, no. But befriending one isnt. I dont perform well in large groups, and most people who are out are in large groups.

So please, dont talk so dismissively.

Dude, you got to keep yourself busy to keep that girl off your mind. This is literally the best time to improve yourself since she won't be distracting you and it'll improve your mood doing other things. Go hit the gym, go join a club that is a part of your hobbies, do something you've wanted to do that you hadn't had time for like learn an instrument, or join a sports league, even learn to dance. Keep trying to hang out with your friends, it's tough as an adult but be patient, we all have responsibilities and commitments.

And don't do these things with the idea that you'll meet girls, or even new friends, do them for yourself.
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