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Topic	Gf just broke up with me. Dunno what to do.
De Evolution 05/27/19 12:34:47 AM #137:	cuttin_in_farm posted... ThyCorndog posted... just realize (like I have, and it's been hard to do so) that you don't miss her, you miss how she made you feel. she's not special and there's more girls out there that will make you feel the same way without all this bullshit and hurt that follows I dunno. I feel like I definitely miss her. I tried to hang out three of my closer friends recently. One never responded to my text. One made plans, but their phone wont receive texts when I follow up, while the third just canceled last minute today. Everyone else is entirely unreliable at anything, and Im feeling more and more dread as days go by. I tried to occupy my day by just being by myself today. And besides running with my dog, I realize just now all I did was run errands for myself. Which isnt any different from my codependent relationships of days past. Im trying really hard not to text her, but when shes the only one who reciprocates, its extremely hard. Work sucks. My computer that had all my writing and journaling just died. And I feel like she left at quite possibly the worst time. Im literally blogfaqing now. Get used to not having friends be as close or as available as you get older. You move to different cities or get your own places, you have your own jobs, projects, careers etc. I spend more time with my girlfriend than any of my friends. My friends don't even live in the same part of the city as me anymore. I have a full time job and a side business I don't have time to just hang out to hang out like I used to and I damn sure don't feel like driving 45 minutes on a weekend to see a friend. It's just life. Get used to being okay with solitude if you want to enjoy your adulthood and mature. Stop relying on other people for support, purpose, or happiness. You should be able to enjoy your own company. Yes being social is part of human nature but people not answering you or getting back to you right away shouldn't affect you in my opinion. Peace. --- Let go your earthly tether. Enter the void. Empty, and become wind. <cite>De Evolution posted [p:922417235] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>cuttin_in_farm posted...</cite> <quote><cite>ThyCorndog posted...</cite> <quote>just realize (like I have, and it's been hard to do so) that you don't miss her, you miss how she made you feel. she's not special and there's more girls out there that will make you feel the same way without all this bullshit and hurt that follows</quote> I dunno. I feel like I definitely miss her. I tried to hang out three of my closer friends recently. One never responded to my text. One made plans, but their phone wont receive texts when I follow up, while the third just canceled last minute today. Everyone else is entirely unreliable at anything, and Im feeling more and more dread as days go by. I tried to occupy my day by just being by myself today. And besides running with my dog, I realize just now all I did was run errands for myself. Which isnt any different from my codependent relationships of days past. Im trying really hard not to text her, but when shes the only one who reciprocates, its extremely hard. Work sucks. My computer that had all my writing and journaling just died. And I feel like she left at quite possibly the worst time. Im literally blogfaqing now.</quote> Get used to not having friends be as close or as available as you get older. You move to different cities or get your own places, you have your own jobs, projects, careers etc. I spend more time with my girlfriend than any of my friends. My friends don't even live in the same part of the city as me anymore. I have a full time job and a side business I don't have time to just hang out to hang out like I used to and I damn sure don't feel like driving 45 minutes on a weekend to see a friend. It's just life. Get used to being okay with solitude if you want to enjoy your adulthood and mature. Stop relying on other people for support, purpose, or happiness. You should be able to enjoy your own company. Yes being social is part of human nature but people not answering you or getting back to you right away shouldn't affect you in my opinion. Peace. --- Let go your earthly tether. Enter the void. Empty, and become wind.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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