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garlic powder posted...

I havent read the rest of the posts but the fact you never got into an argument is actually a red flag to me.

I consider getting into an argument actually a good thing once in a while. It means both of you are passionate about something.

I have found that the strangest couples are the ones who barely ever argue.

I could be wrong, but this is something Ive picked up over the years. Im convinced a lot of women like when you disagree with them at times. It may present a knowledge that youre not just kissing their ass and have your own mindset.

I'm gonna disagree here. There's nothing essential about having arguments, as long as you're able to both express your views and find a path forward together. My wife and I have been together for 11 years, and never had a heated argument. On the flipside, there's also nothing inherently wrong with having arguments, as long as you don't stray into the territory of saying things for the purpose of doing damage to your partner or upsetting them just to "win." That kind of hurt can linger and really decay things over time.
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