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cuttin_in_farm posted...

MabusIncarnate posted...

It's fine to be mad, but it's better to learn early on what to look for, what to avoid, and how to handle bad situations. All you are doing by texting with her is assuring her how she broke up with you through text is fine, and she didn't do anything wrong by not talking with you about anything. This will convince her to do this again in the future to some other guy because you are seemingly fine with it so far.

Just stop talking to her, go see a movie or something and leave your phone at home. Go find someone new. You never know what you are missing if you sit and dwell on something you can't change.

Im upset. I know Ill get over it. But your first paragraph. Shouldnt I tell her, respectfully, how I feel about the way she broke things off? To give myself some sense of self-closure?

I mean... if she ends it once, she can end it twice. And not been given a reason is just burning. I hate loose ends.

Ill cut contact, but I just need to at least tell her why, yes?

No, I wouldn't. She disrespected you, very likely knowingly, because most of the world population knows breaking up through text is an asshole thing to do to someone. You are still considering her and her feelings and getting hung up in the moment. She didn't do that for you.

You have people at work, and mostly everyone in this thread pretty much saying just stop talking to her asap. I don't live in your head though, but pursuing this further is going to make it worse in the long run.

Maybe it's a stupid, irrational reason for her wanting to leave you, and she tells you what it is, and it makes you real self conscious about it, and it's something that sticks with you even though it's the opinion of one person on a planet of billions. In reality it could be absolutely nothing to 99% of everyone else.
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