Women want men who are interesting and offer them something, a stimulating relationship.
You're a nice guy? Got a job? Decent looking? Great, youre one of the 14 other guys who have those qualities trying to talk to the pretty girl.
What do you offer? Can you play the guitar? Do you have ambitions of being a CEO? Do you travel the world and want to share that with someone?
Put it this way. Would you buy the cereal that is a plain white box with the word "Cereal" in black text on it, and the tagline "This is nourishing and provides the energy you need", or the one that is colourful, has a snappy name and advertises itself as "healthy" or "delicious"?
What the fuck is this shit? I don't have any trouble getting with women and I'm not that great looking and pretty boring. You don't need a massive CV. Just entertain them ffs. If they have a good time with you that's all that really matters.
You've literally corroborated my point.
You have to entertain them. Offer them something. Entertainment is something.
What I'm saying is, just being a nice guy isn't enough ---
When goods do not cross borders, soldiers will. Frederic Bastiat, French economist (1801-1850)