If you live in the western world, it's LMS based(looks, money, status). If you don't meet her LMS threshold, it's game over. A lot of PUA idiots will not acknowledge this unfortunately.
what red pill really means is, you are acknowledging the TRUTH(even though it's difficult for people to accept). It's really not complicated.
the bottom line is this, if the woman isn't attracted to the guy, no amount of "confidence" will matter. You can increase your LMS by getting a good job, looksmaxing, etc. that's where the red pill is self help.
Girls date ugly guys all the time dude Have you ever been to college? ---
