tbh in the dating world, girls are literally the jobs/employers
dudes are the jobseeker. and y'all know how the job market can be especially when for every job you could be having 100 applicants lmao.
there is a reason why all of a sudden other girls start being into you more when it's known you have a gf. but then when you are single, you are really and heavily single af XD. it's always the same cycle for me, when I'm single no one has the slightest interest in me whatsoever and I have to try harder. then all of a sudden when I'm either actively pursuing a girl or am currently with one then other girls start contacting and flirting with me and shit. it's pretty annoying lol.