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TopicHow do you get over thinking a girl is out of your league?
DracoSpire
05/06/18 9:52:45 AM
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AreteWastrel posted...
DracoSpire posted...
What is the reason that you think that she's "out of your league"?

I guess I'm just mainly thinking in terms of looks, I'm not an ugly guy or anything but I also never thought I was super attractive.

Also thanks for the comments so far guys, I'm considering all of these.

Buddy, pull up a photo of Geoffrey Arend. Hes not going to win any beauty contests anytime soon. Possibly ever. But hes also married to Christina Hendricks. Now look at Steve Buscemi. Really look. I want you to look deep into those baggy, hangdog eyes, gaze long and hard on those crooked teeth and remember that hes married with kids. Mick Jaggers got a face like a bulldog chewing on a wasp but still banged his way through half the women at the Ford Modeling Agency. Hell, Serge Gainsbourg looks like a damn Deep One and still got European ass like a drunk man with a stolen credit card at a St. Tropez donkey auction.

But, I hear you cry, theyre famous actors and musicians! Theyve got stuff going for them besides their looks! Exactly. Guys frequently confuse being attractive with good looks. While the looks and attraction do go hand in hand, theyre not synonymous. Being attractive is about more than just your face or your height or your physique; its about the whole package. People who seem to date folks whore out of their league get that theres no such thing as leagues; theres people who dig what you bring to the table and people who dont. Sometimes thats looks. Other times its an ability to make someone feel special, or to sing like an angel. Still other times, its the ability to make people laugh.

All of this was quoted from a Kotaku article by "Dr. NerdLove". I highly recommend it, it's a very good read if you're not confident in yourself:
https://kotaku.com/ask-dr-nerdlove-am-i-too-ugly-to-date-1787496069
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