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Topic	Does a lesbian being aroused by men automatically mean she's bi?
Zareth 04/02/18 12:22:47 PM #9:	Kungfu Kenobi posted... This is something my SO and I wrestle with in our own relationship. I present stereotypically male, but don't really identify as such - I don't really have a gender identity at all as far as I'm concerned. My SO considers herself "gay" to differentiate herself from political lesbianism, and has no interest in guys. She doesn't really consider me a guy either, so she's only bi to the extent that I don't present stereotypically feminine. What you're describing though, sounds a little closer to genuine bisexuality. You're aroused by men, but I presume do not connect with them on a romantic level, and maybe not even sexually if it involves real-world skin contact. This is where the Kinsey Scale is useful. It's almost like sexuality and gender identity are fluid and trying to label yourself is pointless or something. --- It's okay, I have no idea who I am either. http://i.imgur.com/WOo6wcq.png <cite>Zareth posted [p:898924596] in Does a les... [t:76475982]...</cite> <quote><cite>Kungfu Kenobi posted...</cite> <quote>This is something my SO and I wrestle with in our own relationship. I present stereotypically male, but don't really identify as such - I don't really have a gender identity at all as far as I'm concerned. My SO considers herself "gay" to differentiate herself from political lesbianism, and has no interest in guys. She doesn't really consider me a guy either, so she's only bi to the extent that I don't present stereotypically feminine. What you're describing though, sounds a little closer to genuine bisexuality. You're aroused by men, but I presume do not connect with them on a romantic level, and maybe not even sexually if it involves real-world skin contact. This is where the Kinsey Scale is useful.</quote> It's almost like sexuality and gender identity are fluid and trying to label yourself is pointless or something. --- It's okay, I have no idea who I am either. http://i.imgur.com/WOo6wcq.png</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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