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| Topic | Does a lesbian being aroused by men automatically mean she's bi? |
| Kungfu Kenobi 04/01/18 8:12:24 PM #5: | This is something my SO and I wrestle with in our own relationship. I present stereotypically male, but don't really identify as such - I don't really have a gender identity at all as far as I'm concerned. My SO considers herself "gay" to differentiate herself from political lesbianism, and has no interest in guys. She doesn't really consider me a guy either, so she's only bi to the extent that I don't present stereotypically feminine. What you're describing though, sounds a little closer to genuine bisexuality. You're aroused by men, but I presume do not connect with them on a romantic level, and maybe not even sexually if it involves real-world skin contact. This is where the Kinsey Scale is useful. dainkinkaide posted... You're bisexual and homoromantic. I think even that loses some of the nuance needed. To me, bisexuality is more or less equal arousal to men and women. She might be predominately homosexual, and completely homoromantic. --- This album is not available to the public. Even if it were, you wouldn't wanna listen to it! ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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