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Topic	Is it kosher for a man in a relationship to make new female friends
_Rinku_ 03/12/18 2:36:40 PM #42:	REMercsChamp posted... _Rinku_ posted... REMercsChamp posted... _Rinku_ posted... C7D posted... Bok_Choi posted... Are you allowed to keep friendship secrets with said newfound female friend or are even those secrets not allowed Honestly, this depends upon the relationship you have with your SO. In my situation, no. I dont keep secrets from my spouse. If she was just a casual girlfriend, then I probably wouldnt tell her everything. I think not keeping secrets from your spouse and not confiding in others over your spouse would just be good practice. Casual girlfriends would not get the same level of trust. And this is why I don't make friends with attached-at-the-hip couples who "don't keep secrets from each other." Why? Because they're honest? Because they're codependent gossip mongers. If I open up to my friend about something, I'm opening up to him, not his girlfriend/wife. Yeah, it's so paranoid to want to confide in someone without them gossiping back to their slampiece. <cite>_Rinku_ posted [p:897660971] in Is it kosh... [t:76407328]...</cite> <quote><cite>REMercsChamp posted...</cite> <quote><cite>_Rinku_ posted...</cite> <quote><cite>REMercsChamp posted...</cite> <quote><cite>_Rinku_ posted...</cite> <quote><cite>C7D posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Bok_Choi posted...</cite> <quote>Are you allowed to keep friendship secrets with said newfound female friend or are even those secrets not allowed</quote> Honestly, this depends upon the relationship you have with your SO. In my situation, no. I dont keep secrets from my spouse. If she was just a casual girlfriend, then I probably wouldnt tell her everything. I think not keeping secrets from your spouse and not confiding in others over your spouse would just be good practice. Casual girlfriends would not get the same level of trust.</quote> And this is why I don't make friends with attached-at-the-hip couples who "don't keep secrets from each other."</quote> Why? Because they're honest?</quote> Because they're codependent gossip mongers. If I open up to my friend about something, I'm opening up to him, not his girlfriend/wife.</quote> </quote> Yeah, it's so paranoid to want to confide in someone without them gossiping back to their slampiece.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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