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Abridged version:

-her relationship was extremely unhealthy for many, many reasons

-we'd worked together very closely for over two years so there was a lot of shared experiences. Also her ex worked nights so she saw me like 6x as much over those two years

-I made a point to not overtly do or say anything to even remotely indicate that I had any romantic interest, for as long as possible. For several obvious reasons. Then eventually something happened where she and I actually had an emotional conflict (details are irrelevant) and when we talked through that, it just made sense to tell her everything.

The period of time after I told her and before she ended things with her ex (and a while after) was kind of awful and he did not handle it well. It kind of highlighted just how unhealthy the relationship had been.