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Topic	Every girl has hundreds of suitors pursuing her.
Dustin1280 02/05/18 3:51:13 PM #34:	Pepys Monster posted... Dustin1280 posted... A wild Pepys Monster appears Pepys Monster uses whine. It's not very effective... What else am I going to do? I've failed. Five months ago, a girl approached me, talked to me, kissed me, asked me on a date, gave me her number, and then I got ghosted. Stop trying to only date 7/10s or better... You clearly are not confident enough to pull that off, regardless of how good of a dancer you are. You want some real advise that will probably fall on deaf ears? 1. If you are going to say something to a women that could be considered not-confident, STOP. Either don't say it at all or think of something different to say that does NOT come off as a low self-esteem comment. 2. Stop assuming women owe you anything, you will put yourself out there and you will get rejected, get used to it. Don't fall into the downward spiral of self deprecation and women hating. Also do not fear rejection, go after multiple women at the same time till you get a bite. If you are rejected, just move on, don't take it as a negative thing. 3. When you meet a new girl and if you are successfully able to get her number, ignore her for at least two days unless she texts you first. 4. After you have successfully received a woman's number and you contact her to setup a date (hopefully after waiting at least 2 days) Don't tell her you are open whenever, at least not originally. Give her one or two days that you are free and stick to them. If those days don't work for her ask her what days do and plan for the next week based on that information. 5. Don't talk about Politics, Religion, ex-relationships, marriage, or family issues on the first date. If she brings them up, try to steer the conversation towards her, NOT you. In fact if you can get her talking about herself that is a win. All i can think of off the top of my head, but those are some good things to keep in mind. --- RIP: Canuklehead, Karma: 1369 // RIP: Gen_Lee_Enfield, Karma: 1731 // RIP: Orlando of the Axe, Karma: 1642 // RIP nayr626 Karma: 4395 --They delivered! <cite>Dustin1280 posted [p:895517597] in Every girl... [t:76285224]...</cite> <quote><cite>Pepys Monster posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Dustin1280 posted...</cite> <quote>A wild Pepys Monster appears Pepys Monster uses whine. It's not very effective...</quote> What else am I going to do? I've failed. Five months ago, a girl approached me, talked to me, kissed me, asked me on a date, gave me her number, and then I got ghosted.</quote> Stop trying to only date 7/10s or better... You clearly are not confident enough to pull that off, regardless of how good of a dancer you are. You want some real advise that will probably fall on deaf ears? 1. If you are going to say something to a women that could be considered not-confident, STOP. Either don't say it at all or think of something different to say that does NOT come off as a low self-esteem comment. 2. Stop assuming women owe you anything, you will put yourself out there and you will get rejected, get used to it. Don't fall into the downward spiral of self deprecation and women hating. Also do not fear rejection, go after multiple women at the same time till you get a bite. If you are rejected, just move on, don't take it as a negative thing. 3. When you meet a new girl and if you are successfully able to get her number, ignore her for at least two days unless she texts you first. 4. After you have successfully received a woman's number and you contact her to setup a date (hopefully after waiting at least 2 days) Don't tell her you are open whenever, at least not originally. Give her one or two days that you are free and stick to them. If those days don't work for her ask her what days do and plan for the next week based on that information. 5. Don't talk about Politics, Religion, ex-relationships, marriage, or family issues on the first date. If she brings them up, try to steer the conversation towards her, NOT you. In fact if you can get her talking about herself that is a win. All i can think of off the top of my head, but those are some good things to keep in mind. --- RIP: Canuklehead, Karma: 1369 // RIP: Gen_Lee_Enfield, Karma: 1731 // RIP: Orlando of the Axe, Karma: 1642 // RIP nayr626 Karma: 4395 --They delivered!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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