Current Events > Every girl has hundreds of suitors pursuing her.

(+) Yeah! (+)

Even a depressed girl with a drug/alcohol problem has guys lining up around the block to date her. Thats why if youre depressed like me, you go into the discard pile. Girls can just select a different guy. A girl Ive been talking to on a dating site has plenty of other options. I dont even know why she replies to me. Boredom, perhaps.
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Probably to laugh at how obviously insecure you are.
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so true
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the more i see you post the more i am convinced you're just a dedicated nerd and not a real loser
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Well the math doesn't really work out, but I think when you combine this with the ~40% obesity rate in American women, it starts to make a little more sense.
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I have TC tagged as "Always sad about no girlfriend"
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If I had a girlfriend, I wouldn't be depressed anymore. But because I'm depressed, I can't get one. The dating market is extremely competitive. 9/10 males have to fight over 6/10 females. 7s, 8s, 9s and 10s all want 10/10 males.
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Asherlee10 posted...

Veggeta X posted...

I have TC tagged as "Always sad about no girlfriend"

It should be "incel gimmick #23453233"

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Maybe so, but of all those suitors only one is me. I'll take those odds.
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Anony1125 posted...

Maybe so, but of all those suitors only one is me. I'll take those odds.

You don't stand a chance against the several Chads competing, each more tall and ripped than the last. You're just a guy from GameFAQs.
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The average guy is unfuckable

The average girl gets blasted by limitless chad dick

Pepys Monster posted...

Anony1125 posted...

Maybe so, but of all those suitors only one is me. I'll take those odds.

You don't stand a chance against the several Chads competing, each more tall and ripped than the last. You're just a guy from GameFAQs.

When you see Chad next, give him a message for me. "Bring it on."
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Average man, etc.
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Just date a fat chick, man. They'll line up for you
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Carlbertomfg posted...

Just date a fat chick, man. They'll line up for you

True. But then people will make fun of me.
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Pepys Monster posted...

Carlbertomfg posted...

Just date a fat chick, man. They'll line up for you

True. But then people will make fun of me.

but your awesome, loving, fat girlfriend will make it all better.
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Carlbertomfg posted...

Pepys Monster posted...

Carlbertomfg posted...

Just date a fat chick, man. They'll line up for you

True. But then people will make fun of me.

but your awesome, loving, fat girlfriend will make it all better.

I'm not so sure about that.
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true, tc, so true. Why do humans have 10 male babies for every 1 female baby? :[
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SmidgeIsntBack posted...

Asherlee10 posted...

Veggeta X posted...

I have TC tagged as "Always sad about no girlfriend"

It should be "incel gimmick #23453233"

This gimmick is no longer amusing topic creator.
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Offworlder1 posted...

SmidgeIsntBack posted...

Asherlee10 posted...

Veggeta X posted...

I have TC tagged as "Always sad about no girlfriend"

It should be "incel gimmick #23453233"

This gimmick is no longer amusing topic creator.

It was never really amusing. We've already got Tadamato. Then there was fruity and his alts who have seem to completely disappeared.

Edit: and lookmoneystatus too.
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Pepys Monster posted...

If I had a girlfriend, I wouldn't be depressed anymore. But because I'm depressed, I can't get one. The dating market is extremely competitive. 9/10 males have to fight over 6/10 females. 7s, 8s, 9s and 10s all want 10/10 males.

That's not how it works.
Assuming that you have depression, getting a girlfriend isn't going to magically fix your depression.
If anything, if you start fighting with each other or having problems in your relationship, it may magnify the depression you were already feeling.
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SusanGreenEyes posted...

Pepys Monster posted...

If I had a girlfriend, I wouldn't be depressed anymore. But because I'm depressed, I can't get one. The dating market is extremely competitive. 9/10 males have to fight over 6/10 females. 7s, 8s, 9s and 10s all want 10/10 males.

That's not how it works.
Assuming that you have depression, getting a girlfriend isn't going to magically fix your depression.
If anything, if you start fighting with each other or having problems in your relationship, it may magnify the depression you were already feeling.

No, getting a GF will fix my depression, because it's caused by rejection, loneliness, and sexual frustration.
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A wild Pepys Monster appears
Pepys Monster uses whine.

It's not very effective...
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Dustin1280 posted...

A wild Pepys Monster appears
Pepys Monster uses whine.

It's not very effective...

What else am I going to do? I've failed. Five months ago, a girl approached me, talked to me, kissed me, asked me on a date, gave me her number, and then I got ghosted.
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Pepys Monster posted...

Dustin1280 posted...

A wild Pepys Monster appears
Pepys Monster uses whine.

It's not very effective...

What else am I going to do? I've failed. Five months ago, a girl approached me, talked to me, kissed me, asked me on a date, gave me her number, and then I got ghosted.

A beautiful, voluptuous woman would never ghost on you. She'd be by your side until the end of the world.
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Carlbertomfg posted...

Pepys Monster posted...

Dustin1280 posted...

A wild Pepys Monster appears
Pepys Monster uses whine.

It's not very effective...

What else am I going to do? I've failed. Five months ago, a girl approached me, talked to me, kissed me, asked me on a date, gave me her number, and then I got ghosted.

A beautiful, voluptuous woman would never ghost on you. She'd be by your side until the end of the world.

She was beautiful and voluptuous.
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Pepys Monster posted...

Dustin1280 posted...

A wild Pepys Monster appears
Pepys Monster uses whine.

It's not very effective...

What else am I going to do? I've failed. Five months ago, a girl approached me, talked to me, kissed me, asked me on a date, gave me her number, and then I got ghosted.

You didn't fail.
There are billions of women on the planet.
Congratulations you kissed one of them.
Now go out there and do it again with a different one, until you find one you like, and who likes you back.
You're not going to find a woman sitting home.
It's a numbers game.
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Assuming TC is actually being real, and this isn't a troll topic, with this kind of attitude you don't even deserve a girl, tbh. Blaming it on the fact that "hundreds of chads chase average girls" means nothing here. Even if a girl had absolutely no one interested in her except you, odds are that she (rightly so) won't want to go anywhere near you. This "I'm a nice guy, so y no sex for me" mentality is quite pathetic. As if being "nice" makes up for several other potential personality and physical flaws that these self proclaimed "nice guys" have.
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GenGrievous03 posted...

Assuming TC is actually being real, and this isn't a troll topic, with this kind of attitude you don't even deserve a girl, tbh. Blaming it on the fact that "hundreds of chads chase average girls" means nothing here. Even if a girl had absolutely no one interested in her except you, odds are that she (rightly so) won't want to go anywhere near you. This "I'm a nice guy, so y no sex for me" mentality is quite pathetic. As if being "nice" makes up for several other potential personality and physical flaws that these self proclaimed "nice guys" have.

You're projecting. Where in this topic did I mention the word "nice"?
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Pepys Monster posted...

Even a depressed girl with a drug/alcohol problem has guys lining up around the block to date her. Thats why if youre depressed like me, you go into the discard pile. Girls can just select a different guy. A girl Ive been talking to on a dating site has plenty of other options. I dont even know why she replies to me. Boredom, perhaps.

Where are you talking to women? Exclusively dating sites or other places too? What do you say when you talk to them?

I'm no expert on dating and I've never used a dating site, but I've been with plenty of girls and had plenty interested in me and I don't think I've ever felt like I was competing with another dude. Maybe its just that dating sites have that problem or maybe the things you're saying are putting girls off?

Pepys Monster posted...

Dustin1280 posted...

A wild Pepys Monster appears
Pepys Monster uses whine.

It's not very effective...

What else am I going to do? I've failed. Five months ago, a girl approached me, talked to me, kissed me, asked me on a date, gave me her number, and then I got ghosted.

Stop trying to only date 7/10s or better...

You clearly are not confident enough to pull that off, regardless of how good of a dancer you are.

You want some real advise that will probably fall on deaf ears?

1. If you are going to say something to a women that could be considered not-confident, STOP. Either don't say it at all or think of something different to say that does NOT come off as a low self-esteem comment.

2. Stop assuming women owe you anything, you will put yourself out there and you will get rejected, get used to it. Don't fall into the downward spiral of self deprecation and women hating. Also do not fear rejection, go after multiple women at the same time till you get a bite. If you are rejected, just move on, don't take it as a negative thing.

3. When you meet a new girl and if you are successfully able to get her number, ignore her for at least two days unless she texts you first.

4. After you have successfully received a woman's number and you contact her to setup a date (hopefully after waiting at least 2 days) Don't tell her you are open whenever, at least not originally. Give her one or two days that you are free and stick to them. If those days don't work for her ask her what days do and plan for the next week based on that information.

5. Don't talk about Politics, Religion, ex-relationships, marriage, or family issues on the first date. If she brings them up, try to steer the conversation towards her, NOT you. In fact if you can get her talking about herself that is a win.

All i can think of off the top of my head, but those are some good things to keep in mind.
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Dustin1280 posted...

Pepys Monster posted...

Dustin1280 posted...

A wild Pepys Monster appears
Pepys Monster uses whine.

It's not very effective...

What else am I going to do? I've failed. Five months ago, a girl approached me, talked to me, kissed me, asked me on a date, gave me her number, and then I got ghosted.

Stop trying to only date 7/10s or better...

You clearly are not confident enough to pull that off, regardless of how good of a dancer you are.

You want some real advise that will probably fall on deaf ears?

1. If you are going to say something to a women that could be considered not-confident, STOP. Either don't say it at all or think of something different to say that does NOT come off as a low self-esteem comment.

2. Stop assuming women owe you anything, you will put yourself out there and you will get rejected, get used to it. Don't fall into the downward spiral of self deprecation and women hating. Also do not fear rejection, go after multiple women at the same time till you get a bite. If you are rejected, just move on, don't take it as a negative thing.

3. When you meet a new girl and if you are successfully able to get her number, ignore her for at least two days unless she texts you first.

4. After you have successfully received a woman's number and you contact her to setup a date (hopefully after waiting at least 2 days) Don't tell her you are open whenever, at least not originally. Give her one or two days that you are free and stick to them. If those days don't work for her ask her what days do and plan for the next week based on that information.

5. Don't talk about Politics, Religion, ex-relationships, marriage, or family issues on the first date. If she brings them up, try to steer the conversation towards her, NOT you. In fact if you can get her talking about herself that is a win.

All i can think of off the top of my head, but those are some good things to keep in mind.

That advice is awesome Dustin! Too bad TC wont take it. Though I highly suspect hes a gimmick. But I hope others read this and take it to heart.

LJRENEGADE posted...

Pepys Monster posted...

Even a depressed girl with a drug/alcohol problem has guys lining up around the block to date her. Thats why if youre depressed like me, you go into the discard pile. Girls can just select a different guy. A girl Ive been talking to on a dating site has plenty of other options. I dont even know why she replies to me. Boredom, perhaps.

Where are you talking to women? Exclusively dating sites or other places too? What do you say when you talk to them?

I'm no expert on dating and I've never used a dating site, but I've been with plenty of girls and had plenty interested in me and I don't think I've ever felt like I was competing with another dude. Maybe its just that dating sites have that problem or maybe the things you're saying are putting girls off?

I talk to women at raves and on dating sites. At raves, we usually both enthuse about stuff. On dating sites, I usually ask the girl questions about herself.
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5. Don't talk about Politics, Religion, ex-relationships, marriage, or family issues on the first date.

lol, this frumpy nerd girl I went on a date with started talking about how much she hated Trump on the first date. I almost wanted to walk out. In retrospect, I should have. She was lame.
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Dustin, you should know that your advice doesn't work for everyone.
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donkeyjack posted...

Dustin, you should know that your advice doesn't work for everyone.

No advice is 100% effective, but in general these are very good things to keep in mind... ESPECIALLY #1 and #2 those are possibly the most important.
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Dustin1280 posted...

donkeyjack posted...

Dustin, you should know that your advice doesn't work for everyone.

No advice is 100% effective, but in general these are very good things to keep in mind... ESPECIALLY #1 that's possibly the most important.

Why is it important, though? I don't get it.
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If every single girl on the planet would rather be with other guys then you're the problem.
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Darmik posted...

If every single girl on the planet would rather be with other guys then you're the problem.

lol at this troll post. I haven't talked to every single girl on the planet. Get out of here.
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You know every now and then I also make my foreveralone/No girl wants me topic too but damn man you make one every day.
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And I do it for shits and giggles.
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Pepys Monster posted...

Darmik posted...

If every single girl on the planet would rather be with other guys then you're the problem.

lol at this troll post. I haven't talked to every single girl on the planet. Get out of here.

So start talking to the right ones then.
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Dustin1280 posted...

Pepys Monster posted...

Dustin1280 posted...

A wild Pepys Monster appears
Pepys Monster uses whine.

It's not very effective...

What else am I going to do? I've failed. Five months ago, a girl approached me, talked to me, kissed me, asked me on a date, gave me her number, and then I got ghosted.

Stop trying to only date 7/10s or better...

You clearly are not confident enough to pull that off, regardless of how good of a dancer you are.

You want some real advise that will probably fall on deaf ears?

1. If you are going to say something to a women that could be considered not-confident, STOP. Either don't say it at all or think of something different to say that does NOT come off as a low self-esteem comment.

2. Stop assuming women owe you anything, you will put yourself out there and you will get rejected, get used to it. Don't fall into the downward spiral of self deprecation and women hating. Also do not fear rejection, go after multiple women at the same time till you get a bite. If you are rejected, just move on, don't take it as a negative thing.

3. When you meet a new girl and if you are successfully able to get her number, ignore her for at least two days unless she texts you first.

4. After you have successfully received a woman's number and you contact her to setup a date (hopefully after waiting at least 2 days) Don't tell her you are open whenever, at least not originally. Give her one or two days that you are free and stick to them. If those days don't work for her ask her what days do and plan for the next week based on that information.

5. Don't talk about Politics, Religion, ex-relationships, marriage, or family issues on the first date. If she brings them up, try to steer the conversation towards her, NOT you. In fact if you can get her talking about herself that is a win.

All i can think of off the top of my head, but those are some good things to keep in mind.

This is all sound advice but I really struggle with 2. I dont hold any ill will to any woman but I beat myself up so much when I get rejected (which is a lot). I'm proud and confident of my life outside of getting chicks but there's just something demoralizing about failure there that isn't present when I fail at other things.
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There is no circumstance where low self esteem is attractive. Women IN GENERAL (yes this is true whether you believe or not) do not want to be with people that are not confident in themselves. That doesn't mean you have to be an arrogant douche, but confidence is attractive. In fact confidence (w/o being an arrogant prick) can make the difference between you picking up someone you would rate as a 5 versus someone you would rate as a 9.

People who give off low self esteem vibes and don't have confidence in themselves are pushovers, pushovers are NOT attractive...

Exceptions exist but they are just that, exceptions. They are most definitely not the norm.

The single most important thing during the initial dating period is your confidence. It's not your looks and it's not your money. Both of these things, admittedly do help, but they are not a requirement.

For a long term relationship there has to be SOME physical attraction and you must have a personality to make it last. But confidence is the spark, physical attraction and personality are what keep the spark going.

mew4ever posted...

This is all sound advice but I really struggle with 2. I dont hold any ill will to any woman but I beat myself up so much when I get rejected (which is a lot). I'm proud and confident of my life outside of getting chicks but there's just something demoralizing about failure there that isn't present when I fail at other things.

Honestly, for someone that has been beating themselves up for getting rejected for a long period of time, this is probably the hardest step to take. You have to be able to convince yourself that rejection doesn't matter and that takes a drastic change in the way you perceive things.

The best advise i can give for you to that specific point is this:

1. There are plenty of women in the world, getting rejected by one just means you have a chance with another.
2. Do not put women on a pedestal, they are people just like you.
3. Rejection HAPPENS, EVERYONE gets rejected at some point, even rich people, even famous people, even "chad's." I challenge you to find one person that is in mid 20's that hasn't been rejected in the past. Granted, looks, money, and status DO tend to make things easier, but it's not a requirement by any means.
4. The best way to get over it is to put yourself out their, get rejected, brush it off, and try again. When you finally don't get rejected, it will make rejection that much easier going forward.
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Veggeta X posted...

You know every now and then I also make my foreveralone/No girl wants me topic too but damn man you make one every day.

I'm deeply depressed every day.
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Pepys Monster posted...

Carlbertomfg posted...

Just date a fat chick, man. They'll line up for you

True. But then people will make fun of me.

Because right now they admire you.
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philsov posted...

Pepys Monster posted...

Carlbertomfg posted...

Just date a fat chick, man. They'll line up for you

True. But then people will make fun of me.

Because right now they admire you.

Contrary to whatever it is you think, people respect a single guy more than one who will stoop low just to have a GF, because it's a demonstration of self-respect.
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I have TC tagged as [Not A Chad].
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