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Topic	So... How do I get more matches on Tinder?
Tropic_Sunset 01/20/18 4:20:37 PM #40:	GameReviews posted... Tropic_Sunset posted... GameReviews posted... It's much harder to approach girls in person than it is online. False. It's sooo much easier. I think you'd find yourself in the minority there. I know a lot of socially awkward guys who have been able to do online dating no problem, but wouldn't ever be able to approach women in person. Maybe. But I used to be a socially awkward guy. I practically walked with a hunchback in high school. I actually remember one day where I was going to my next class, saw some girls looking at me, one said "Ew" really loud and then they all started laughing at me. But then I learned to not give a shit (people say 'be confident' but really just not caring about things got me to the same place) and found that not only could I be comfortable in a room full of strangers with no effort, but focusing on small, quick, easy things like my posture and putting on cologne made a HUGE difference. One of the better things you can do is just learn to talk to people, and if you're serious about improving you can do it much faster than getting a "hot bod" (although, and while I haven't really done this one, working out is worth it as well), and will see much more drastic results. I'm someone who's not ugly (not crazy hot either) and have been able to sleep with some of the hottest girls I've ever met when I meet them in real life, but get 99.9% duds while dating online. Seriously, I cannot stress that it's worth the work. It's not as hard as you might think it is and worth the effort. That said, don't listen to pick up artists. They lay a good foundation, at best, but beyond that you pretty much need to become the person you hate to get what you want, and there's no reason for that. --- "Nostalgia is a hell of a drug." -Magus 10 <cite>Tropic_Sunset posted [p:894444684] in So... How ... [t:76214002]...</cite> <quote><cite>GameReviews posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Tropic_Sunset posted...</cite> <quote><cite>GameReviews posted...</cite> <quote> It's much harder to approach girls in person than it is online.</quote> False. It's sooo much easier.</quote> I think you'd find yourself in the minority there. I know a lot of socially awkward guys who have been able to do online dating no problem, but wouldn't ever be able to approach women in person.</quote> Maybe. But I used to be a socially awkward guy. I practically walked with a hunchback in high school. I actually remember one day where I was going to my next class, saw some girls looking at me, one said "Ew" really loud and then they all started laughing at me. But then I learned to not give a shit (people say 'be confident' but really just not caring about things got me to the same place) and found that not only could I be comfortable in a room full of strangers with no effort, but focusing on small, quick, easy things like my posture and putting on cologne made a HUGE difference. One of the better things you can do is just learn to talk to people, and if you're serious about improving you can do it much faster than getting a "hot bod" (although, and while I haven't really done this one, working out is worth it as well), and will see much more drastic results. I'm someone who's not ugly (not crazy hot either) and have been able to sleep with some of the hottest girls I've ever met when I meet them in real life, but get 99.9% duds while dating online. Seriously, I cannot stress that it's worth the work. It's not as hard as you might think it is and worth the effort. That said, don't listen to pick up artists. They lay a good foundation, at best, but beyond that you pretty much need to become the person you hate to get what you want, and there's no reason for that. --- "Nostalgia is a hell of a drug." -Magus 10</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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