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And I'm not sure how to feel about it.

They had three kids together, they were married for 22 years and have been divorced for more than 5. I get that those people were her family for a long time. I have no problem with that or her keeping contact with those people. It's only natural for her to have connections to them over that much time. I'm still friends with some of my sister's ex boyfriends. I get it.

Well her ex husband's father died over the past few days. She was close with the man and has been feeling guilt having not gone to see him in a few years. This is the grandfather of her children, right? He was a father to her when her own father was being quite cruel and distant. I totally understand and have no problem with this either.

So let's just fast forward to my dilemma. I saw her post something on FB about her ex father-in-law today, some R.I.P. type stuff. There's all the typical responses of condolences and all that. No biggie. Well a few hours go by and I happen to open up FB again to see that post at the top of my news feed. My girlfriend's last response was "I love you too." I didn't think much of it, though I got curious and clicked the comments to see what prompted her to say that and when it went to load the post, it said there was an error and to try loading it again. Tried again, nothing. I logged out, logged back in and checked her profile to see that the post was no longer there.

Now there's only a few options here. A) She hid the post from me. B) She deleted the thread. C) There's some kind of glitch on FB and the topic is lost somewhere in electronic limbo.

I've had no reason not to trust her up until this point, but suddenly alarm bells are going off. I'm probably over-analyzing, but suddenly I feel a bit suspicious. Anybody deal with something like this? Any insights?

tl;dr

Girlfriend's post about ex-husband's recently deceased father magically disappears after she says "I love you too" to someone before I can see the proper context.