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Topic	Gonna say NO to the friend zone
OmegaTomHank 12/13/17 1:45:03 PM #43:	Jen0125 posted... OmegaTomHank posted... If you want to be friends genuinely then fine, but it has to be a mutual decision much like a romance would be. Not one of the two having deep seated, underlying intentions. no one is saying you need to force yourself to be friends with her but it is extremely immature to profess your feelings for her knowing she has a boyfriend and putting her in that position. especially someone you need to work with? come on, dude. I never worked with her. She worked near me and that no longer is the case. She was sad about not seeing me for like a month and a half because I became very busy. As far as her position goes, she has pretty clear option, yes or no. As far as my position goes, Im sure if she knows that it would be dragging me along emotionally she would reconsider or at least understand my POV, but she wont until I tell her. Realistically I shouldve just told her then but I just wasnt ready to do so. <cite>OmegaTomHank posted [p:892147472] in Gonna say ... [t:76094371]...</cite> <quote><cite>Jen0125 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>OmegaTomHank posted...</cite> <quote> If you want to be friends genuinely then fine, but it has to be a mutual decision much like a romance would be. Not one of the two having deep seated, underlying intentions.</quote> no one is saying you need to force yourself to be friends with her but it is extremely immature to profess your feelings for her knowing she has a boyfriend and putting her in that position. especially someone you need to work with? come on, dude.</quote> I never worked with her. She worked near me and that no longer is the case. She was sad about not seeing me for like a month and a half because I became very busy. As far as her position goes, she has pretty clear option, yes or no. As far as my position goes, Im sure if she knows that it would be dragging me along emotionally she would reconsider or at least understand my POV, but she wont until I tell her. Realistically I shouldve just told her then but I just wasnt ready to do so.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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