And Im declining. Much like she has the opportunity to decline me wanting more.
See how it works? Two way street.
declining what? her friendship? you didn't address any part of my post.
you can't just literally tell her you don't want to be friends anymore without laying your emotional baggage at her feet?
Or don't even just tell her that, just hang out with her less for now and let her choose if she wants to seek you out and do things with you. If she does, and you don't anymore, then turn her down, if she doesn't even bother trying to hang with you, then just let it die and move on. No reason to make it something complicated.
Yeah Id consider this but this is childish so Id rather not.