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Topic	I just found out my fiancee was cheating on me
Tropic_Sunset 12/10/17 1:02:40 PM #18:	GameReviews posted... To be honest, I'm married and i feel like this too. I'm not sure I'd say I'd automatically end it no matter what if this happened. As I said, I was really in this same boat as well. I think she just wanted to have her cake and eat it to. adjl posted... KogaSteelfang posted... Sorry to hear that, I honestly don't understand how that situation occurs. If you're not willing to commit to your partner, don't accept the proposal. Sure, that would hurt them too, but it'd be better to know that you're not ready than to just lie to them and go behind their back. Yeah, cheating while engaged has got to be the worst. It's never a good thing, but at least at other points you can attribute it to getting bored with the state of the relationship. Being engaged doesn't last that long, so cheating during that period is basically a matter of saying "I love you and I want to spend my life with you" and then immediately turning around and sleeping with somebody else. If you're going to change your mind so quickly, don't say yes. What an awful person. Full disclosure, she asked me to marry her. A month into her relationship with her boyfriend. And apparently he also asked her to marry him in that time (if she wasn't lying to her brother, I can provide pics of that one). I suspect she may have been trying to manipulate me into not being suspicious with the engagement. --- "Nostalgia is a hell of a drug." -Magus 10 <cite>Tropic_Sunset posted [p:891945312] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>GameReviews posted...</cite> <quote>To be honest, I'm married and i feel like this too. I'm not sure I'd say I'd automatically end it no matter what if this happened. </quote> As I said, I was really in this same boat as well. I think she just wanted to have her cake and eat it to. <cite>adjl posted...</cite> <quote><cite>KogaSteelfang posted...</cite> <quote>Sorry to hear that, I honestly don't understand how that situation occurs. If you're not willing to commit to your partner, don't accept the proposal. Sure, that would hurt them too, but it'd be better to know that you're not ready than to just lie to them and go behind their back.</quote> Yeah, cheating while engaged has got to be the worst. It's never a good thing, but at least at other points you can attribute it to getting bored with the state of the relationship. Being engaged doesn't last that long, so cheating during that period is basically a matter of saying "I love you and I want to spend my life with you" and then immediately turning around and sleeping with somebody else. If you're going to change your mind so quickly, don't say yes. What an awful person.</quote> Full disclosure, she asked me to marry her. A month into her relationship with her boyfriend. And apparently he also asked her to marry him in that time (if she wasn't lying to her brother, I can provide pics of that one). I suspect she may have been trying to manipulate me into not being suspicious with the engagement. --- "Nostalgia is a hell of a drug." -Magus 10</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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