Poll of the Day > I just found out my fiancee was cheating on me

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Tropic_Sunset 12/10/17 11:59:50 AM #1:	Needless to say, she's not my fiancee anymore. But dammit if this isn't the worst breakup I've had. What's your worst breakup? --- "Nostalgia is a hell of a drug." -Magus 10 <cite>Tropic_Sunset posted [p:891942144] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote>Needless to say, she's not my fiancee anymore. But dammit if this isn't the worst breakup I've had. What's your worst breakup?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lokarin 12/10/17 12:02:32 PM #2:	Idk, I'd let a fiancee get a slide under certain situations... like it's future proofing, gotta get the freebangs out before final commitment. But I also understand that that's not for everyone, and I'm sorry for your loss. In any case, never had a breakup since never been in a formal relationship. --- "Salt cures Everything!" My YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/Nirakolov/videos <cite>Lokarin posted [p:891942295] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote>Idk, I'd let a fiancee get a slide under certain situations... like it's future proofing, gotta get the freebangs out before final commitment. But I also understand that that's not for everyone, and I'm sorry for your loss. In any case, never had a breakup since never been in a formal relationship.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RCtheWSBC 12/10/17 12:05:18 PM #3:	Dang...that really blows, but I suppose the thin silver lining is that you won't be getting married to someone who isn't committed to you. --- http://i.imgur.com/1yl1fH0.jpg the White-Sounding Black Chick <cite>RCtheWSBC posted [p:891942435] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote>Dang...that really blows, but I suppose the thin silver lining is that you won't be getting married to someone who isn't committed to you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 12/10/17 12:16:15 PM #4:	Thats messed up, people should really not cheat on each other. Very hurtful thing to do to a person that youve allowed to become emotionally attached to yourself. --- All praise Mead <cite>Mead posted [p:891942970] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote>Thats messed up, people should really not cheat on each other. Very hurtful thing to do to a person that youve allowed to become emotionally attached to yourself.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 12/10/17 12:25:52 PM #5:	Tropic_Sunset posted... What's your worst breakup? None existent. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - http://i.imgur.com/kDysIcd.gif <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:891943427] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>Tropic_Sunset posted...</cite> <quote>What's your worst breakup?</quote> None existent.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KogaSteelfang 12/10/17 12:37:42 PM #6:	Sorry to hear that, I honestly don't understand how that situation occurs. If you're not willing to commit to your partner, don't accept the proposal. Sure, that would hurt them too, but it'd be better to know that you're not ready than to just lie to them and go behind their back. --- What did the pirate say on his 80th birthday? Aye Matey! <cite>KogaSteelfang posted [p:891943986] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote>Sorry to hear that, I honestly don't understand how that situation occurs. If you're not willing to commit to your partner, don't accept the proposal. Sure, that would hurt them too, but it'd be better to know that you're not ready than to just lie to them and go behind their back.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NightShift 12/10/17 12:44:13 PM #7:	get a motorcycle hit the gym pick up a new tankskank every month --- #BikeLife <cite>NightShift posted [p:891944321] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote>get a motorcycle hit the gym pick up a new tankskank every month</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pizz 12/10/17 12:45:51 PM #8:	tell us all the emotionally painful details. i want you to be vivid and relive the memories <cite>pizz posted [p:891944406] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote>tell us all the emotionally painful details. i want you to be vivid and relive the memories</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
green dragon 12/10/17 12:48:53 PM #9:	Lokarin posted... Idk, I'd let a fiancee get a slide under certain situations... like it's future proofing, gotta get the freebangs out before final commitment. what the hell is wrong with y... Lokarin posted... In any case, never had a breakup since never been in a formal relationship ah, that makes sense <cite>green dragon posted [p:891944558] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>Lokarin posted...</cite> <quote>Idk, I'd let a fiancee get a slide under certain situations... like it's future proofing, gotta get the freebangs out before final commitment.</quote> what the hell is wrong with y... <cite>Lokarin posted...</cite> <quote>In any case, never had a breakup since never been in a formal relationship</quote> ah, that makes sense</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lokarin 12/10/17 12:53:21 PM #10:	green dragon posted... Lokarin posted... Idk, I'd let a fiancee get a slide under certain situations... like it's future proofing, gotta get the freebangs out before final commitment. what the hell is wrong with y... Lokarin posted... In any case, never had a breakup since never been in a formal relationship ah, that makes sense If I got married I wouldn't want regrets for not doing things on some sort of pre-marriage bucket list. If anything, both sides should get their final hurrahs of singletude out. --- "Salt cures Everything!" My YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/Nirakolov/videos <cite>Lokarin posted [p:891944794] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>green dragon posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Lokarin posted...</cite> <quote>Idk, I'd let a fiancee get a slide under certain situations... like it's future proofing, gotta get the freebangs out before final commitment.</quote> what the hell is wrong with y... <cite>Lokarin posted...</cite> <quote>In any case, never had a breakup since never been in a formal relationship</quote> ah, that makes sense</quote> If I got married I wouldn't want regrets for not doing things on some sort of pre-marriage bucket list. If anything, both sides should get their final hurrahs of singletude out.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tropic_Sunset 12/10/17 12:57:12 PM #11:	Lokarin posted... Idk, I'd let a fiancee get a slide under certain situations... like it's future proofing, gotta get the freebangs out before final commitment. But I also understand that that's not for everyone, and I'm sorry for your loss. She had a boyfriend. For 2 months. Mead posted... Thats messed up, people should really not cheat on each other. Very hurtful thing to do to a person that youve allowed to become emotionally attached to yourself. Agreed. The worst part is that we even discussed an open relationship, which apparently she went through with anyway while I stayed loyal. RCtheWSBC posted... Dang...that really blows, but I suppose the thin silver lining is that you won't be getting married to someone who isn't committed to you. That's pretty much my mindset right now. KogaSteelfang posted... Sorry to hear that, I honestly don't understand how that situation occurs. If you're not willing to commit to your partner, don't accept the proposal. Sure, that would hurt them too, but it'd be better to know that you're not ready than to just lie to them and go behind their back. Right? And we'd been together for well over a year at this point, kind of feels like I wasted my time. NightShift posted... hit the gym Way ahead of you on that one, getting rid of my relationship gut. pizz posted... tell us all the emotionally painful details. i want you to be vivid and relive the memories So I've been suspicious for awhile of a "friend" of hers who she probably spends about as much (or more) time with as she does me, and she's taken to changing her phone PIN and keeping it under her pillow while sleeping. I'm not an idiot so this raised some red flags. I also saw an odd email while monitoring my network (I can paste the contents here with names redacted if anyone cares). She of course denies anything is going on. So once, while she's taking a nap, she leaves her phone at the foot of the bed by mistake. I see this, I know her new PIN, so I struggle for a little while and decide eventually that I won't go through her phone because that's not what I'm about, but I will check the texts for the guy I'm suspicious of. Sure enough, turns out they've been dating, she's calling him the same pet name as she does me, and they went away on a weekend when she told me she was taking care of things down in SLC. I sit on this for a few days while I decide what I want to do with it, because I know if I confront her she'll just lie to me. There's also the distinct possibility she stole $100 out of my bank account and I consider getting evidence and going to the police (to be fair, I don't know for sure this was her but I'd be very surprised if it wasn't). I know she and her boyfriend smoke weed so I also consider finding out where they are and making an anonymous call to the cops whenever they do that next. Eventually, I just get drunk and we have an argument. This occurred last night. She pushed me, I pushed her back, she calls the cops, they come over, find her bong, drug test us both (I don't smoke weed) she leaves, and that's the story so far. --- "Nostalgia is a hell of a drug." -Magus 10 <cite>Tropic_Sunset posted [p:891945003] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>Lokarin posted...</cite> <quote>Idk, I'd let a fiancee get a slide under certain situations... like it's future proofing, gotta get the freebangs out before final commitment. But I also understand that that's not for everyone, and I'm sorry for your loss.</quote> She had a boyfriend. For 2 months. <cite>Mead posted...</cite> <quote>Thats messed up, people should really not cheat on each other. Very hurtful thing to do to a person that youve allowed to become emotionally attached to yourself.</quote> Agreed. The worst part is that we even discussed an open relationship, which apparently she went through with anyway while I stayed loyal. <cite>RCtheWSBC posted...</cite> <quote>Dang...that really blows, but I suppose the thin silver lining is that you won't be getting married to someone who isn't committed to you.</quote> That's pretty much my mindset right now. <cite>KogaSteelfang posted...</cite> <quote>Sorry to hear that, I honestly don't understand how that situation occurs. If you're not willing to commit to your partner, don't accept the proposal. Sure, that would hurt them too, but it'd be better to know that you're not ready than to just lie to them and go behind their back.</quote> Right? And we'd been together for well over a year at this point, kind of feels like I wasted my time. <cite>NightShift posted...</cite> <quote>hit the gym </quote> Way ahead of you on that one, getting rid of my relationship gut. <cite>pizz posted...</cite> <quote>tell us all the emotionally painful details. i want you to be vivid and relive the memories</quote> So I've been suspicious for awhile of a "friend" of hers who she probably spends about as much (or more) time with as she does me, and she's taken to changing her phone PIN and keeping it under her pillow while sleeping. I'm not an idiot so this raised some red flags. I also saw an odd email while monitoring my network (I can paste the contents here with names redacted if anyone cares). She of course denies anything is going on. So once, while she's taking a nap, she leaves her phone at the foot of the bed by mistake. I see this, I know her new PIN, so I struggle for a little while and decide eventually that I won't go through her phone because that's not what I'm about, but I will check the texts for the guy I'm suspicious of. Sure enough, turns out they've been dating, she's calling him the same pet name as she does me, and they went away on a weekend when she told me she was taking care of things down in SLC. I sit on this for a few days while I decide what I want to do with it, because I know if I confront her she'll just lie to me. There's also the distinct possibility she stole $100 out of my bank account and I consider getting evidence and going to the police (to be fair, I don't know for sure this was her but I'd be very surprised if it wasn't). I know she and her boyfriend smoke weed so I also consider finding out where they are and making an anonymous call to the cops whenever they do that next. Eventually, I just get drunk and we have an argument. This occurred last night. She pushed me, I pushed her back, she calls the cops, they come over, find her bong, drug test us both (I don't smoke weed) she leaves, and that's the story so far.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GameReviews 12/10/17 12:57:23 PM #12:	green dragon posted... Lokarin posted... Idk, I'd let a fiancee get a slide under certain situations... like it's future proofing, gotta get the freebangs out before final commitment. what the hell is wrong with y... Lokarin posted... In any case, never had a breakup since never been in a formal relationship ah, that makes sense To be honest, I'm married and i feel like this too. I'm not sure I'd say I'd automatically end it no matter what if this happened. --- Sign here. <cite>GameReviews posted [p:891945017] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>green dragon posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Lokarin posted...</cite> <quote>Idk, I'd let a fiancee get a slide under certain situations... like it's future proofing, gotta get the freebangs out before final commitment.</quote> what the hell is wrong with y... <cite>Lokarin posted...</cite> <quote>In any case, never had a breakup since never been in a formal relationship</quote> ah, that makes sense</quote> To be honest, I'm married and i feel like this too. I'm not sure I'd say I'd automatically end it no matter what if this happened.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
adjl 12/10/17 12:58:07 PM #13:	KogaSteelfang posted... Sorry to hear that, I honestly don't understand how that situation occurs. If you're not willing to commit to your partner, don't accept the proposal. Sure, that would hurt them too, but it'd be better to know that you're not ready than to just lie to them and go behind their back. Yeah, cheating while engaged has got to be the worst. It's never a good thing, but at least at other points you can attribute it to getting bored with the state of the relationship. Being engaged doesn't last that long, so cheating during that period is basically a matter of saying "I love you and I want to spend my life with you" and then immediately turning around and sleeping with somebody else. If you're going to change your mind so quickly, don't say yes. What an awful person. --- This is my signature. It exists to keep people from skipping the last line of my posts. <cite>adjl posted [p:891945072] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>KogaSteelfang posted...</cite> <quote>Sorry to hear that, I honestly don't understand how that situation occurs. If you're not willing to commit to your partner, don't accept the proposal. Sure, that would hurt them too, but it'd be better to know that you're not ready than to just lie to them and go behind their back.</quote> Yeah, cheating while engaged has got to be the worst. It's never a good thing, but at least at other points you can attribute it to getting bored with the state of the relationship. Being engaged doesn't last that long, so cheating during that period is basically a matter of saying "I love you and I want to spend my life with you" and then immediately turning around and sleeping with somebody else. If you're going to change your mind so quickly, don't say yes. What an awful person.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 12/10/17 12:58:15 PM #14:	RCtheWSBC posted... Dang...that really blows, but I suppose the thin silver lining is that you won't be getting married to someone who isn't committed to you. This.. Sorry to hear man. I hope you feel better soon. --- http://i.imgur.com/4ihiyS2.jpg "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:891945085] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>RCtheWSBC posted...</cite> <quote>Dang...that really blows, but I suppose the thin silver lining is that you won't be getting married to someone who isn't committed to you.</quote> This.. Sorry to hear man. I hope you feel better soon.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tropic_Sunset 12/10/17 12:59:30 PM #15:	green dragon posted... Lokarin posted... Idk, I'd let a fiancee get a slide under certain situations... like it's future proofing, gotta get the freebangs out before final commitment. what the hell is wrong with y... Lokarin posted... In any case, never had a breakup since never been in a formal relationship ah, that makes sense I kind of get where he's coming from, but also think that honesty and loyalty are better qualities. Hell, I must've told her at least three different times (before I had hard evidence) that if she admitted it and broke things off I'd let it slide. Love is a stupid, crazy thing. Lokarin posted... If I got married I wouldn't want regrets for not doing things on some sort of pre-marriage bucket list. If anything, both sides should get their final hurrahs of singletude out. It depends on what both parties agree to. The thing that really pisses me off is I was arguing for an open relationship and she didn't want to do that. --- "Nostalgia is a hell of a drug." -Magus 10 <cite>Tropic_Sunset posted [p:891945140] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>green dragon posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Lokarin posted...</cite> <quote>Idk, I'd let a fiancee get a slide under certain situations... like it's future proofing, gotta get the freebangs out before final commitment.</quote> what the hell is wrong with y... <cite>Lokarin posted...</cite> <quote>In any case, never had a breakup since never been in a formal relationship</quote> ah, that makes sense</quote> I kind of get where he's coming from, but also think that honesty and loyalty are better qualities. Hell, I must've told her at least three different times (before I had hard evidence) that if she admitted it and broke things off I'd let it slide. Love is a stupid, crazy thing. <cite>Lokarin posted...</cite> <quote>If I got married I wouldn't want regrets for not doing things on some sort of pre-marriage bucket list. If anything, both sides should get their final hurrahs of singletude out. </quote> It depends on what both parties agree to. The thing that really pisses me off is I was arguing for an open relationship and she didn't want to do that.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tropic_Sunset 12/10/17 1:00:03 PM #16:	Jen0125 posted... RCtheWSBC posted... Dang...that really blows, but I suppose the thin silver lining is that you won't be getting married to someone who isn't committed to you. This.. Sorry to hear man. I hope you feel better soon. I'm honestly okay. I mean, it sucks but really right now I'm feeling like I dodged a bullet. --- "Nostalgia is a hell of a drug." -Magus 10 <cite>Tropic_Sunset posted [p:891945163] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>Jen0125 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>RCtheWSBC posted...</cite> <quote>Dang...that really blows, but I suppose the thin silver lining is that you won't be getting married to someone who isn't committed to you.</quote> This.. Sorry to hear man. I hope you feel better soon.</quote> I'm honestly okay. I mean, it sucks but really right now I'm feeling like I dodged a bullet.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 12/10/17 1:01:21 PM #17:	Yeah for sure. I'd be at least a little relieved that my partner did it before we got married and wasted all that time and effort. Now we have to pay to break up? Man, fuck you. That'd be the icing on the shit cake. --- http://i.imgur.com/4ihiyS2.jpg "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:891945233] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote>Yeah for sure. I'd be at least a little relieved that my partner did it before we got married and wasted all that time and effort. Now we have to pay to break up? Man, fuck you. That'd be the icing on the shit cake.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tropic_Sunset 12/10/17 1:02:40 PM #18:	GameReviews posted... To be honest, I'm married and i feel like this too. I'm not sure I'd say I'd automatically end it no matter what if this happened. As I said, I was really in this same boat as well. I think she just wanted to have her cake and eat it to. adjl posted... KogaSteelfang posted... Sorry to hear that, I honestly don't understand how that situation occurs. If you're not willing to commit to your partner, don't accept the proposal. Sure, that would hurt them too, but it'd be better to know that you're not ready than to just lie to them and go behind their back. Yeah, cheating while engaged has got to be the worst. It's never a good thing, but at least at other points you can attribute it to getting bored with the state of the relationship. Being engaged doesn't last that long, so cheating during that period is basically a matter of saying "I love you and I want to spend my life with you" and then immediately turning around and sleeping with somebody else. If you're going to change your mind so quickly, don't say yes. What an awful person. Full disclosure, she asked me to marry her. A month into her relationship with her boyfriend. And apparently he also asked her to marry him in that time (if she wasn't lying to her brother, I can provide pics of that one). I suspect she may have been trying to manipulate me into not being suspicious with the engagement. --- "Nostalgia is a hell of a drug." -Magus 10 <cite>Tropic_Sunset posted [p:891945312] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>GameReviews posted...</cite> <quote>To be honest, I'm married and i feel like this too. I'm not sure I'd say I'd automatically end it no matter what if this happened. </quote> As I said, I was really in this same boat as well. I think she just wanted to have her cake and eat it to. <cite>adjl posted...</cite> <quote><cite>KogaSteelfang posted...</cite> <quote>Sorry to hear that, I honestly don't understand how that situation occurs. If you're not willing to commit to your partner, don't accept the proposal. Sure, that would hurt them too, but it'd be better to know that you're not ready than to just lie to them and go behind their back.</quote> Yeah, cheating while engaged has got to be the worst. It's never a good thing, but at least at other points you can attribute it to getting bored with the state of the relationship. Being engaged doesn't last that long, so cheating during that period is basically a matter of saying "I love you and I want to spend my life with you" and then immediately turning around and sleeping with somebody else. If you're going to change your mind so quickly, don't say yes. What an awful person.</quote> Full disclosure, she asked me to marry her. A month into her relationship with her boyfriend. And apparently he also asked her to marry him in that time (if she wasn't lying to her brother, I can provide pics of that one). I suspect she may have been trying to manipulate me into not being suspicious with the engagement.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lokarin 12/10/17 1:02:44 PM #19:	Ya, the context of the situation implies she was dishonest about it and that it was inappropriate on top of that - that's a combo for hurts --- "Salt cures Everything!" My YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/Nirakolov/videos <cite>Lokarin posted [p:891945318] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote>Ya, the context of the situation implies she was dishonest about it and that it was inappropriate on top of that - that's a combo for hurts</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pizz 12/10/17 1:02:44 PM #20:	So I've been suspicious for awhile of a "friend" of hers who she probably spends about as much (or more) time with as she does me, and she's taken to changing her phone PIN and keeping it under her pillow while sleeping. I'm not an idiot so this raised some red flags. I also saw an odd email while monitoring my network (I can paste the contents here with names redacted if anyone cares). She of course denies anything is going on. So once, while she's taking a nap, she leaves her phone at the foot of the bed by mistake. I see this, I know her new PIN, so I struggle for a little while and decide eventually that I won't go through her phone because that's not what I'm about, but I will check the texts for the guy I'm suspicious of. Sure enough, turns out they've been dating, she's calling him the same pet name as she does me, and they went away on a weekend when she told me she was taking care of things down in SLC. I sit on this for a few days while I decide what I want to do with it, because I know if I confront her she'll just lie to me. There's also the distinct possibility she stole $100 out of my bank account and I consider getting evidence and going to the police (to be fair, I don't know for sure this was her but I'd be very surprised if it wasn't). I know she and her boyfriend smoke weed so I also consider finding out where they are and making an anonymous call to the cops whenever they do that next. Eventually, I just get drunk and we have an argument. This occurred last night. She pushed me, I pushed her back, she calls the cops, they come over, find her bong, drug test us both (I don't smoke weed) she leaves, and that's the story so far. I'm not trying to be typical by talking about gender but I swear. Women always find a way to get the guy in trouble when they are busted doing something wrong. Honestly sorry to hear that. Humans just can't be trusted. <cite>pizz posted [p:891945319] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><quote>So I've been suspicious for awhile of a "friend" of hers who she probably spends about as much (or more) time with as she does me, and she's taken to changing her phone PIN and keeping it under her pillow while sleeping. I'm not an idiot so this raised some red flags. I also saw an odd email while monitoring my network (I can paste the contents here with names redacted if anyone cares). She of course denies anything is going on. So once, while she's taking a nap, she leaves her phone at the foot of the bed by mistake. I see this, I know her new PIN, so I struggle for a little while and decide eventually that I won't go through her phone because that's not what I'm about, but I will check the texts for the guy I'm suspicious of. Sure enough, turns out they've been dating, she's calling him the same pet name as she does me, and they went away on a weekend when she told me she was taking care of things down in SLC. I sit on this for a few days while I decide what I want to do with it, because I know if I confront her she'll just lie to me. There's also the distinct possibility she stole $100 out of my bank account and I consider getting evidence and going to the police (to be fair, I don't know for sure this was her but I'd be very surprised if it wasn't). I know she and her boyfriend smoke weed so I also consider finding out where they are and making an anonymous call to the cops whenever they do that next. Eventually, I just get drunk and we have an argument. This occurred last night. She pushed me, I pushed her back, she calls the cops, they come over, find her bong, drug test us both (I don't smoke weed) she leaves, and that's the story so far.</quote> I'm not trying to be typical by talking about gender but I swear. Women always find a way to get the guy in trouble when they are busted doing something wrong. Honestly sorry to hear that. Humans just can't be trusted.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tropic_Sunset 12/10/17 1:03:43 PM #21:	Jen0125 posted... Yeah for sure. I'd be at least a little relieved that my partner did it before we got married and wasted all that time and effort. Now we have to pay to break up? Man, fuck you. That'd be the icing on the shit cake. Right? Better now than a few months from now when we'd have to get divorced. --- "Nostalgia is a hell of a drug." -Magus 10 <cite>Tropic_Sunset posted [p:891945370] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>Jen0125 posted...</cite> <quote>Yeah for sure. I'd be at least a little relieved that my partner did it before we got married and wasted all that time and effort. Now we have to pay to break up? Man, fuck you. That'd be the icing on the shit cake.</quote> Right? Better now than a few months from now when we'd have to get divorced.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pizz 12/10/17 1:04:16 PM #22:	LOL at anyone who would give a second chance. Men just aren't men anymore. <cite>pizz posted [p:891945397] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote>LOL at anyone who would give a second chance. Men just aren't men anymore.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 12/10/17 1:04:31 PM #23:	pizz posted... I'm not trying to be typical by talking about gender but I swear. Women always find a way to get the guy in trouble when they are busted doing something wrong. Probably why more and more people are gay these days. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - http://i.imgur.com/kDysIcd.gif <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:891945419] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>pizz posted...</cite> <quote>I'm not trying to be typical by talking about gender but I swear. Women always find a way to get the guy in trouble when they are busted doing something wrong.</quote> Probably why more and more people are gay these days.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tropic_Sunset 12/10/17 1:06:15 PM #24:	Lokarin posted... Ya, the context of the situation implies she was dishonest about it and that it was inappropriate on top of that - that's a combo for hurts I gave her outs and she didn't take them. I have no problem dumping her sorry ass now. pizz posted... I'm not trying to be typical by talking about gender but I swear. Women always find a way to get the guy in trouble when they are busted doing something wrong. If I'm being completely honest, I was pretty drunk last night and may have pushed her first (I really don't remember) but wouldn't ever do anything to actually HURT her, even now. That said, at least she lost that bong she loved because the cops found it. Bit of a silver lining, really. And she could've trusted me. She's just too in love with herself, I guess. --- "Nostalgia is a hell of a drug." -Magus 10 <cite>Tropic_Sunset posted [p:891945516] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>Lokarin posted...</cite> <quote>Ya, the context of the situation implies she was dishonest about it and that it was inappropriate on top of that - that's a combo for hurts</quote> I gave her outs and she didn't take them. I have no problem dumping her sorry ass now. <cite>pizz posted...</cite> <quote>I'm not trying to be typical by talking about gender but I swear. Women always find a way to get the guy in trouble when they are busted doing something wrong. </quote> If I'm being completely honest, I was pretty drunk last night and may have pushed her first (I really don't remember) but wouldn't ever do anything to actually HURT her, even now. That said, at least she lost that bong she loved because the cops found it. Bit of a silver lining, really. And she could've trusted me. She's just too in love with herself, I guess.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
minervo 12/10/17 1:07:27 PM #25:	Why would you be with a pot smoker if you don't smoke pot yourself? Pot is a religion to some people. Just let her go, sounds like she has enough problems as it is. <cite>minervo posted [p:891945592] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote>Why would you be with a pot smoker if you don't smoke pot yourself? Pot is a religion to some people. Just let her go, sounds like she has enough problems as it is.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tropic_Sunset 12/10/17 1:07:52 PM #26:	pizz posted... LOL at anyone who would give a second chance. Men just aren't men anymore. Only if she admitted it and dumped the guy. One mistake, I can understand, but once I found out she was in a relationship with the other guy, that sealed it. wwinterj25 posted... Probably why more and more people are gay these days. Ha, the best part is I'm bi, so that's not outside of the realm of possibility with me. --- "Nostalgia is a hell of a drug." -Magus 10 <cite>Tropic_Sunset posted [p:891945617] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>pizz posted...</cite> <quote>LOL at anyone who would give a second chance. Men just aren't men anymore.</quote> Only if she admitted it and dumped the guy. One mistake, I can understand, but once I found out she was in a relationship with the other guy, that sealed it. <cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>Probably why more and more people are gay these days. </quote> Ha, the best part is I'm bi, so that's not outside of the realm of possibility with me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
yutterh 12/10/17 1:08:32 PM #27:	Tropic_Sunset posted... green dragon posted... Lokarin posted... Idk, I'd let a fiancee get a slide under certain situations... like it's future proofing, gotta get the freebangs out before final commitment. what the hell is wrong with y... Lokarin posted... In any case, never had a breakup since never been in a formal relationship ah, that makes sense I kind of get where he's coming from, but also think that honesty and loyalty are better qualities. Hell, I must've told her at least three different times (before I had hard evidence) that if she admitted it and broke things off I'd let it slide. Love is a stupid, crazy thing. Lokarin posted... If I got married I wouldn't want regrets for not doing things on some sort of pre-marriage bucket list. If anything, both sides should get their final hurrahs of singletude out. It depends on what both parties agree to. The thing that really pisses me off is I was arguing for an open relationship and she didn't want to do that. That shit is crazy. Like my mind is blown why she would do that. I guess she wanted the economic responinbility from you, while ducking whoever she wants, and not wanting you getting ideas with any other woman. Sounds like she was just a manipulative bitch. Sucks that you fell in love with her. I feel for you man. But I do like your plan of calling the cops on their smoke session lol I mean I smoke weed but she deserves it ya know? --- i7-5820K 3.3GHz, Asus X99-DELUXE, Corsair H110i GTX, 850 EVO 1TB, EVGA GTX 970 4GB FTW ACX2.0, Corsair 760T, EVGA 850W, Orion Spark, Proteus Core, Benq BL3200PT <cite>yutterh posted [p:891945650] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>Tropic_Sunset posted...</cite> <quote><cite>green dragon posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Lokarin posted...</cite> <quote>Idk, I'd let a fiancee get a slide under certain situations... like it's future proofing, gotta get the freebangs out before final commitment.</quote> what the hell is wrong with y... <cite>Lokarin posted...</cite> <quote>In any case, never had a breakup since never been in a formal relationship</quote> ah, that makes sense</quote> I kind of get where he's coming from, but also think that honesty and loyalty are better qualities. Hell, I must've told her at least three different times (before I had hard evidence) that if she admitted it and broke things off I'd let it slide. Love is a stupid, crazy thing. <cite>Lokarin posted...</cite> <quote>If I got married I wouldn't want regrets for not doing things on some sort of pre-marriage bucket list. If anything, both sides should get their final hurrahs of singletude out. </quote> It depends on what both parties agree to. The thing that really pisses me off is I was arguing for an open relationship and she didn't want to do that.</quote> That shit is crazy. Like my mind is blown why she would do that. I guess she wanted the economic responinbility from you, while ducking whoever she wants, and not wanting you getting ideas with any other woman. Sounds like she was just a manipulative bitch. Sucks that you fell in love with her. I feel for you man. But I do like your plan of calling the cops on their smoke session lol I mean I smoke weed but she deserves it ya know?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tropic_Sunset 12/10/17 1:09:56 PM #28:	minervo posted... Why would you be with a pot smoker if you don't smoke pot yourself? I would smoke pot, but I have a pretty serious sensitivity. I might as well be taking acid if I smoke pot. I can't even drink absinthe without freaking out. But I'm on the side of "smoke if you got 'em" minervo posted... Pot is a religion to some people. Just let her go, sounds like she has enough problems as it is. That's the plan as it stands now. --- "Nostalgia is a hell of a drug." -Magus 10 <cite>Tropic_Sunset posted [p:891945728] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>minervo posted...</cite> <quote>Why would you be with a pot smoker if you don't smoke pot yourself?</quote> I would smoke pot, but I have a pretty serious sensitivity. I might as well be taking acid if I smoke pot. I can't even drink absinthe without freaking out. But I'm on the side of "smoke if you got 'em" <cite>minervo posted...</cite> <quote>Pot is a religion to some people. Just let her go, sounds like she has enough problems as it is. </quote> That's the plan as it stands now.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 12/10/17 1:09:59 PM #29:	Tropic_Sunset posted... Ha, the best part is I'm bi, so that's not outside of the realm of possibility with me. Revenge bang her boyfriend. It's the only way. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - http://i.imgur.com/kDysIcd.gif <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:891945732] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>Tropic_Sunset posted...</cite> <quote>Ha, the best part is I'm bi, so that's not outside of the realm of possibility with me.</quote> Revenge bang her boyfriend. It's the only way.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tropic_Sunset 12/10/17 1:11:27 PM #30:	yutterh posted... That shit is crazy. Like my mind is blown why she would do that. I guess she wanted the economic responinbility from you, while ducking whoever she wants, and not wanting you getting ideas with any other woman. Sounds like she was just a manipulative bitch. Sucks that you fell in love with her. I feel for you man. But I do like your plan of calling the cops on their smoke session lol I mean I smoke weed but she deserves it ya know? Yeah, honestly I got the same sense. As for the pot plan, the only thing that gives me pause is that I'm fairly certain she's lying to him as well, so I don't think he deserves that. I kinda feel bad for him, I don't think he's smart enough to figure out she's a lying cheater. --- "Nostalgia is a hell of a drug." -Magus 10 <cite>Tropic_Sunset posted [p:891945829] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>yutterh posted...</cite> <quote>That shit is crazy. Like my mind is blown why she would do that. I guess she wanted the economic responinbility from you, while ducking whoever she wants, and not wanting you getting ideas with any other woman. Sounds like she was just a manipulative bitch. Sucks that you fell in love with her. I feel for you man. But I do like your plan of calling the cops on their smoke session lol I mean I smoke weed but she deserves it ya know?</quote> Yeah, honestly I got the same sense. As for the pot plan, the only thing that gives me pause is that I'm fairly certain she's lying to him as well, so I don't think he deserves that. I kinda feel bad for him, I don't think he's smart enough to figure out she's a lying cheater.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tropic_Sunset 12/10/17 1:11:48 PM #31:	wwinterj25 posted... Tropic_Sunset posted... Ha, the best part is I'm bi, so that's not outside of the realm of possibility with me. Revenge bang her boyfriend. It's the only way. I have a new plan now. --- "Nostalgia is a hell of a drug." -Magus 10 <cite>Tropic_Sunset posted [p:891945850] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Tropic_Sunset posted...</cite> <quote>Ha, the best part is I'm bi, so that's not outside of the realm of possibility with me.</quote> Revenge bang her boyfriend. It's the only way.</quote> I have a new plan now.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
adjl 12/10/17 1:18:41 PM #32:	Tropic_Sunset posted... Full disclosure, she asked me to marry her. Even worse, then. pizz posted... LOL at anyone who would give a second chance. Men just aren't men anymore. It's not something you can really make a blanket statement about. In this case, it sounds like he already gave her plenty of opportunity to air her grievances with the relationship, and even possibly solve them with an open one, and she not only didn't take that opportunity, but herself went the extra commitment mile by asking TC to marry her. She's had her chances, no sense wasting any more emotional investment on the worthless turdbag. In other cases, though? Cheating can be a consequence of solvable relationship problems. It's always going to require time to rebuild the broken trust, and that may not ever be possible, but it's still important to look at what the actual problems are and see if you can solve the problems. Sometimes you can end up with a stronger relationship for it (after all, there are probably a few reasons why you got into the relationship in the first place). Sometimes you can calmly arrive at a mutual decision to break up (your reasons for starting the relationship may just not apply anymore). Either way, you should try looking at the problems, for the sake of at least minimizing the amount of resentment you end up carrying moving forward, if not actually salvaging the relationship. --- This is my signature. It exists to keep people from skipping the last line of my posts. <cite>adjl posted [p:891946225] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>Tropic_Sunset posted...</cite> <quote>Full disclosure, she asked me to marry her.</quote> Even worse, then. <cite>pizz posted...</cite> <quote>LOL at anyone who would give a second chance. Men just aren't men anymore.</quote> It's not something you can really make a blanket statement about. In this case, it sounds like he already gave her plenty of opportunity to air her grievances with the relationship, and even possibly solve them with an open one, and she not only didn't take that opportunity, but herself went the extra commitment mile by asking TC to marry her. She's had her chances, no sense wasting any more emotional investment on the worthless turdbag. In other cases, though? Cheating can be a consequence of solvable relationship problems. It's always going to require time to rebuild the broken trust, and that may not ever be possible, but it's still important to look at what the actual problems are and see if you can solve the problems. Sometimes you can end up with a stronger relationship for it (after all, there are probably a few reasons why you got into the relationship in the first place). Sometimes you can calmly arrive at a mutual decision to break up (your reasons for starting the relationship may just not apply anymore). Either way, you should try looking at the problems, for the sake of at least minimizing the amount of resentment you end up carrying moving forward, if not actually salvaging the relationship.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
yutterh 12/10/17 1:21:15 PM #33:	Tropic_Sunset posted... wwinterj25 posted... Tropic_Sunset posted... Ha, the best part is I'm bi, so that's not outside of the realm of possibility with me. Revenge bang her boyfriend. It's the only way. I have a new plan now. https://goo.gl/images/m6487c --- i7-5820K 3.3GHz, Asus X99-DELUXE, Corsair H110i GTX, 850 EVO 1TB, EVGA GTX 970 4GB FTW ACX2.0, Corsair 760T, EVGA 850W, Orion Spark, Proteus Core, Benq BL3200PT <cite>yutterh posted [p:891946371] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>Tropic_Sunset posted...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Tropic_Sunset posted...</cite> <quote>Ha, the best part is I'm bi, so that's not outside of the realm of possibility with me.</quote> Revenge bang her boyfriend. It's the only way.</quote> I have a new plan now.</quote> https://goo.gl/images/m6487c</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SunWuKung420 12/10/17 1:22:54 PM #34:	That sucks man. --- I'm either failing at a silly joke or trying to help. http://i.imgur.com/m8f7VYf.jpg http://i.imgur.com/0Lp7Agd.jpg http://i.imgur.com/47emEDA.jpg <cite>SunWuKung420 posted [p:891946464] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote>That sucks man.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tropic_Sunset 12/10/17 1:30:27 PM #35:	SunWuKung420 posted... That sucks man. Yeah. But on the plus side, I have a hot neighbor with whom there is years of sexual tension, and we're drinking together tonight. --- "Nostalgia is a hell of a drug." -Magus 10 <cite>Tropic_Sunset posted [p:891946828] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>SunWuKung420 posted...</cite> <quote>That sucks man.</quote> Yeah. But on the plus side, I have a hot neighbor with whom there is years of sexual tension, and we're drinking together tonight.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SunWuKung420 12/10/17 1:54:07 PM #36:	Tropic_Sunset posted... SunWuKung420 posted... That sucks man. Yeah. But on the plus side, I have a hot neighbor with whom there is years of sexual tension, and we're drinking together tonight. --- I'm either failing at a silly joke or trying to help. http://i.imgur.com/m8f7VYf.jpg http://i.imgur.com/0Lp7Agd.jpg http://i.imgur.com/47emEDA.jpg <cite>SunWuKung420 posted [p:891948156] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>Tropic_Sunset posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SunWuKung420 posted...</cite> <quote>That sucks man.</quote> Yeah. But on the plus side, I have a hot neighbor with whom there is years of sexual tension, and we're drinking together tonight.</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
jsb0714 12/10/17 2:01:24 PM #37:	Tropic_Sunset posted... Jen0125 posted... Yeah for sure. I'd be at least a little relieved that my partner did it before we got married and wasted all that time and effort. Now we have to pay to break up? Man, fuck you. That'd be the icing on the shit cake. Right? Better now than a few months from now when we'd have to get divorced. So it won't happen once you're married because...? --- Spliiiish! Ka-Boom!!! <cite>jsb0714 posted [p:891948550] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>Tropic_Sunset posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Jen0125 posted...</cite> <quote>Yeah for sure. I'd be at least a little relieved that my partner did it before we got married and wasted all that time and effort. Now we have to pay to break up? Man, fuck you. That'd be the icing on the shit cake.</quote> Right? Better now than a few months from now when we'd have to get divorced.</quote> So it won't happen once you're married because...?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheWorstPoster 12/10/17 2:02:10 PM #38:	I'm sorry man. She could not resist me at all. <cite>TheWorstPoster posted [p:891948595] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote>I'm sorry man. She could not resist me at all.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SmokeMassTree 12/10/17 2:05:55 PM #39:	My worst breakup ended from cheating also. I mean I was cheating on her with a coworker for the first two years but for the last year I was faithful. To be fair, the coworker and I were hooking up for months before I started dating her so it's not really cheating. She cheated on me tho with this fuck boi that makes sims videos on YouTube. Pretty boy looking dude. That hurt and the way I found out hurt even more. He's been using her as a side hoe off and on tho so atleast that makes me feel a lil better. I've fucked two of her friends since. Both of them initiated it because "they wanted to see if I was as good as she said I was". Apparently I am because one keeps hitting me up when she's drunk. It sucks now and you'll probably always look back on it and get sad, but it will get better. --- A.K. 2/14/10 T.C.P. Victorious Champion of the 1st Annual POTd Hunger Games and the POTd Battle Royale Season 3 <cite>SmokeMassTree posted [p:891948816] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote>My worst breakup ended from cheating also. I mean I was cheating on her with a coworker for the first two years but for the last year I was faithful. To be fair, the coworker and I were hooking up for months before I started dating her so it's not really cheating. She cheated on me tho with this fuck boi that makes sims videos on YouTube. Pretty boy looking dude. That hurt and the way I found out hurt even more. He's been using her as a side hoe off and on tho so atleast that makes me feel a lil better. I've fucked two of her friends since. Both of them initiated it because "they wanted to see if I was as good as she said I was". Apparently I am because one keeps hitting me up when she's drunk. It sucks now and you'll probably always look back on it and get sad, but it will get better.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tropic_Sunset 12/10/17 2:09:15 PM #40:	jsb0714 posted... Tropic_Sunset posted... Jen0125 posted... Yeah for sure. I'd be at least a little relieved that my partner did it before we got married and wasted all that time and effort. Now we have to pay to break up? Man, fuck you. That'd be the icing on the shit cake. Right? Better now than a few months from now when we'd have to get divorced. So it won't happen once you're married because...? ...because we're not getting married now? TheWorstPoster posted... I'm sorry man. She could not resist me at all. Fuck off. SmokeMassTree posted... It sucks now and you'll probably always look back on it and get sad, but it will get better. I know, this isn't my first rodeo. Definitely the worst one, since I was never engaged previously, but not the first. --- "Nostalgia is a hell of a drug." -Magus 10 <cite>Tropic_Sunset posted [p:891949008] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>jsb0714 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Tropic_Sunset posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Jen0125 posted...</cite> <quote>Yeah for sure. I'd be at least a little relieved that my partner did it before we got married and wasted all that time and effort. Now we have to pay to break up? Man, fuck you. That'd be the icing on the shit cake.</quote> Right? Better now than a few months from now when we'd have to get divorced.</quote> So it won't happen once you're married because...?</quote> ...because we're not getting married now? <cite>TheWorstPoster posted...</cite> <quote>I'm sorry man. She could not resist me at all.</quote> Fuck off. <cite>SmokeMassTree posted...</cite> <quote>It sucks now and you'll probably always look back on it and get sad, but it will get better. </quote> I know, this isn't my first rodeo. Definitely the worst one, since I was never engaged previously, but not the first.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
adjl 12/10/17 2:10:14 PM #41:	SmokeMassTree posted... To be fair, the coworker and I were hooking up for months before I started dating her so it's not really cheating. Uhh... --- This is my signature. It exists to keep people from skipping the last line of my posts. <cite>adjl posted [p:891949065] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>SmokeMassTree posted...</cite> <quote>To be fair, the coworker and I were hooking up for months before I started dating her so it's not really cheating. </quote> Uhh...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mipond 12/10/17 2:17:30 PM #42:	minervo posted... Why would you be with a pot smoker if you don't smoke pot yourself? Pot is a religion to some people. Just let her go, sounds like she has enough problems as it is. My boyfriend smoked weed and I didn't. It really wasn't an issue. He didn't smoke at home and respected that I didn't... I respected his right to smoke it if he wanted. There was never once a problem with that. And TC....sounds like you're head is in the right place but I'm sorry you have to go through it at all. <cite>mipond posted [p:891949519] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>minervo posted...</cite> <quote>Why would you be with a pot smoker if you don't smoke pot yourself? Pot is a religion to some people. Just let her go, sounds like she has enough problems as it is.</quote> My boyfriend smoked weed and I didn't. It really wasn't an issue. He didn't smoke at home and respected that I didn't... I respected his right to smoke it if he wanted. There was never once a problem with that. And TC....sounds like you're head is in the right place but I'm sorry you have to go through it at all.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheCyborgNinja 12/10/17 2:48:20 PM #43:	Ive only had one serious relationship. Everything prior didnt really bother me when it ended because they never felt right. I wasnt emotionally invested enough and was just like guess thats that and moved on. I would not handle being cheated on well though. Betrayal cuts deep. Ive dealt with it in different ways and its the worst. --- "message parlor" ? do you mean the post office ? - SlayerX888 <cite>TheCyborgNinja posted [p:891951439] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote>Ive only had one serious relationship. Everything prior didnt really bother me when it ended because they never felt right. I wasnt emotionally invested enough and was just like guess thats that and moved on. I would not handle being cheated on well though. Betrayal cuts deep. Ive dealt with it in different ways and its the worst.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 12/10/17 3:11:36 PM #44:	First of all, sorry about that whole thing, TC. I think cheating is pretty bad. I think that I may have been cheated on before, but it was a HS relationship, and was barely that. I was going to say that since most of games "relationships" had been FWB or hook-ups that I really had had a bad break-up. But then I remember that I was dating someone once. The reason we broke up was because I forgot that we were dating and left for the Air Force. I mean, I remember for like the first 2 weeks once I got to basic. Then forgot until months and months later. They were unstabdably not happy... That was pretty bad. But I'm in a good one now and probably my first real relationship(as in not FWB or hook-ups, though it started like that). It's takes time to get over someone, but you will. --- 3DS Friend Code: 4742 6214 5315 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. 0001 3388 9537, also. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:891952901] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote>First of all, sorry about that whole thing, TC. I think cheating is pretty bad. I think that I may have been cheated on before, but it was a HS relationship, and was barely that. I was going to say that since most of games "relationships" had been FWB or hook-ups that I really had had a bad break-up. But then I remember that I was dating someone once. The reason we broke up was because I forgot that we were dating and left for the Air Force. I mean, I remember for like the first 2 weeks once I got to basic. Then forgot until months and months later. They were unstabdably not happy... That was pretty bad. But I'm in a good one now and probably my first real relationship(as in not FWB or hook-ups, though it started like that). It's takes time to get over someone, but you will.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mipond 12/10/17 3:13:26 PM #45:	How did you forget you were dating? <cite>mipond posted [p:891953023] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote>How did you forget you were dating?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
jsb0714 12/10/17 3:20:22 PM #46:	Tropic_Sunset posted... jsb0714 posted... Tropic_Sunset posted... Jen0125 posted... Yeah for sure. I'd be at least a little relieved that my partner did it before we got married and wasted all that time and effort. Now we have to pay to break up? Man, fuck you. That'd be the icing on the shit cake. Right? Better now than a few months from now when we'd have to get divorced. So it won't happen once you're married because...? ...because we're not getting married now? We'll see. --- Spliiiish! Ka-Boom!!! <cite>jsb0714 posted [p:891953433] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>Tropic_Sunset posted...</cite> <quote><cite>jsb0714 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Tropic_Sunset posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Jen0125 posted...</cite> <quote>Yeah for sure. I'd be at least a little relieved that my partner did it before we got married and wasted all that time and effort. Now we have to pay to break up? Man, fuck you. That'd be the icing on the shit cake.</quote> Right? Better now than a few months from now when we'd have to get divorced.</quote> So it won't happen once you're married because...?</quote> ...because we're not getting married now?</quote> We'll see.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 12/10/17 3:20:49 PM #47:	mipond posted... How did you forget you were dating? Oh. Well, we hardly ever saw each other or talked. I tried texting and calling. And we'd text for a while. But there was always something going on. They kinda stood me up a couple times when trying to get together. It was... weird. Like they wanted to be in a relationship... without wanting to be in a relationship. Later, when I call to apologize about the whole "left for the Air Force because I forgot we were dating", we talked it out. I mean, it sounds kinda lame when I say it. But actually knowing all the things that happened during the relationship like all the reasons and excuses and stuff is different. And it happened a lot. --- 3DS Friend Code: 4742 6214 5315 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. 0001 3388 9537, also. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:891953453] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>mipond posted...</cite> <quote>How did you forget you were dating?</quote> Oh. Well, we hardly ever saw each other or talked. I tried texting and calling. And we'd text for a while. But there was always something going on. They kinda stood me up a couple times when trying to get together. It was... weird. Like they wanted to be in a relationship... without wanting to be in a relationship. Later, when I call to apologize about the whole "left for the Air Force because I forgot we were dating", we talked it out. I mean, it sounds kinda lame when I say it. But actually knowing all the things that happened during the relationship like all the reasons and excuses and stuff is different. And it happened a lot.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
joemodda 12/10/17 3:27:32 PM #48:	Tropic_Sunset posted... Agreed. The worst part is that we even discussed an open relationship, which apparently she went through with anyway while I stayed loyal. If she brought this up with you, then that should have been a big red flag for you. Anytime a woman brings this up it means she already has somebody in mind. If you aren't ok with her cheating on you, break up with her on the spot. --- Whatever the cost, whatever the effort! <cite>joemodda posted [p:891953785] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>Tropic_Sunset posted...</cite> <quote> Agreed. The worst part is that we even discussed an open relationship, which apparently she went through with anyway while I stayed loyal. </quote> If she brought this up with you, then that should have been a big red flag for you. Anytime a woman brings this up it means she already has somebody in mind. If you aren't ok with her cheating on you, break up with her on the spot.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 12/10/17 3:29:47 PM #49:	joemodda posted... Tropic_Sunset posted... Agreed. The worst part is that we even discussed an open relationship, which apparently she went through with anyway while I stayed loyal. If she brought this up with you, then that should have been a big red flag for you. Anytime a woman brings this up it means she already has somebody in mind. If you aren't ok with her cheating on you, break up with her on the spot. I believe TC said he brought it up. Also, I wonder if TC had he hot neighbor in mind when he brought it up... --- 3DS Friend Code: 4742 6214 5315 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. 0001 3388 9537, also. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:891953902] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote><cite>joemodda posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Tropic_Sunset posted...</cite> <quote> Agreed. The worst part is that we even discussed an open relationship, which apparently she went through with anyway while I stayed loyal. </quote> If she brought this up with you, then that should have been a big red flag for you. Anytime a woman brings this up it means she already has somebody in mind. If you aren't ok with her cheating on you, break up with her on the spot.</quote> I believe TC said he brought it up. Also, I wonder if TC had he hot neighbor in mind when he brought it up...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Far-Queue 12/10/17 4:05:49 PM #50:	Sorry Tropic :/ Make sure you get tested, even if you wore rubbers. --- https://i.imgur.com/ZwO4qO2.gifv Bluer than velvet was the night... Softer than satin was the light... From the stars... <cite>Far-Queue posted [p:891955961] in I just fou... [t:76083201]...</cite> <quote>Sorry Tropic :/ Make sure you get tested, even if you wore rubbers.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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