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So, She tries to convince me to stay and suggests that we'll have more privacy if I do. I say I'd love to stay but I have to work and I need a ride home and my ride home is leaving.

Previously at the same party, unknown to me [but at the same time, sorta known to me]. I was on the porch not feeling so well and decided to sleep in my friend Ryan's car [my ride home]. Me and 2 other friends walk to the car to see some girl having sex with ryan in the car. I wasn't aware who it was, but it turns out with was the same girl who tried to get me to spend the night and almost had sex with me in the basement.... Except this is before all that happened.

Anyway, after the party I'm hanging out at this coffee shop where I know most of my friends and so on. And it's been 3 days after the party and a friend of mine comes up to me and tells me that there's a rumor going around that I raped some girl. I'm a bit shocked by this. It turns out there's a rumor that Ryan did as well and that it's the girl from the party. She's saying that Ryan raped her and that I did too in the basement of the party.

But, everyone who was actually at the party and saw what happened says she's lying and making this story up. People who are known to not like me at all are telling people "No, she was making out with him and tried to get him to stay and spend the night but then he left cause he had to be at work, she's lying and full of [censored]".

Despite people who were actually there saying that it never happened some people still very much wanted to believe it happened anyway.

One day I was out and about and ran into her. I turned to go walk away and go somewhere else and then there was a crowd of people who were chasing me and they attacked me and beat me so badly I had to go to the emergency room. On the way there the guy in the back of the ambulance was telling me he'd heard what I did and that he thinks they shouldn't just left me there to die and tells me what a horrible human being I am. I spent a week in the hospital before I got out.

When I left, I barely left my house for anything other than to go to work or the grocery store or to pay my rent. I just didn't want to leave my house at all. I saved up and then I moved and got a new job. I didn't want to be anywhere near that neighborhood or those people anymore.

Too this day I'm very afraid of women.

I'm afraid because I had met someone who I though was interested in me, even if just in a superficial surface level kinda way where she was just horny. I still had the impression she was interested and I was respectful of her. The moment she said she felt uncomfortable and wanted to stop I did. But still she went and spread lies that resulted in a group of people attacking and hurting me so badly I had to go to the emergency room and on my ride there I was treated like I was the bad guy.

I'm still scared everytime I meet someone... just thinking of how they can lie and completely ruin my life so easily. This is probably my biggest hurdle in relationships, I have some extreme trust issues because of this
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