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SunWuKung420 posted...

If a woman doesn't reciprocate your feelings and you're sticking around as a "friend" just in the off chance she'll change her mind, you're already a bad friend.

In this particular case, you bailed on being a friend because the likelihood of it ever being more seemed bleak.

I really hope that pain you're feeling isn't anger at her for not choosing you.

I thought about this myself, and I disagree. When it all started I had no intention of trying to start a relationship. I just saw a lonely person sitting in the cafe at school and went up and said hi. It wasn't until about late summer that I was like "Oh shit, I think I'm falling for her, what do I do?". So I figured I'd just continue on as if nothing changed. Eventually I worked up the courage to ask her, and after she said no I thought I'd be okay. Now I know that I don't think I can just be friends, which is why I think it'd be better to just cut ties.

And no, I'm not angry at her. I'm just really sad is all.
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