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Smarkil posted...

Look man, at this point dating I think is fine. You and your wife didn't have the same relationship you had whenever you met, and so you've already moved on from that. It's understandable.

But dating your roommate is sketchy as fuck. Go talk to a therapist and let them get to know the situation. Don't push it with the roommate until you have that sorted out.

In the meantime, just accidentally walk in on her in the shower and shit. Gotta know what she looks like naked before you commit.

Lol. Yeah, not gonna do the bathroom thing hehe, she has her own bathroom downstairs. She is also way better looking then me. She did seem almost possessive of me yesterday when talking to a neighbor and laughed when the neighbor asked if "This was permanent" as far as her living here.

I'm just gonna hold off on making any sudden decisions. I don't like therapists etc, I saw one after my wife passed away but she did nothing for me (just had me talk which got old fast).

I'm doing pretty good over all, have my life moving forward etc. I don't NEED someone in my life, but I do want to start moving forward and traveling etc, and I would like to find someone before I do that (although I guess I could always meet someone while traveling/white water rafting etc).

Still wouldn't it be nice if I already had?
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