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| Topic | I'm thinking of asking my roomate out/dating her........ |
| wolfy42 05/12/17 3:23:37 PM #31: | Jen0125 posted... idk i don't think filling the void with your roommate is going to help you. you seem to need to learn to live on your own without having to "care" for someone. you should talk to a counselor. Ugh, I know your right. That was one of the main things I was trying to avoid. I have taken care of someone my whole life, and I don't want to get stuck in a situation where I am taking care of someone again. One of the big things that kinda made me think I should move forward was her offering money for groceries even though I never asked etc, she isn't just relying on me/taking advantage of me, but is an active supporter, offering to help with costs, work etc. That is VERY different then my wife (who was happy to let me take care of her). I have a tendency to try and help everyone even if I can't afford it or don't have the energy etc to deal with it. She has turned down help I have offered her, paid back money sooner then I asked, and offered to pay for things I didn't ask her to etc. She has not taken advantage of me even though she could have, which is refreshing and ...well awesome. So there are alot of good things about her. She is also a great mother, she has a sense of humor and fun, she is hard working and responsible, and she can take care of herself (She doesn't need me to rescue her all the time etc). I think we could be really good together, but the whole figuring that out, could be tricky. If we didn't live together it would be much easier lol. --- Proud member of the Arv The Great is great fan club!!! Join today by putting it in your sig. ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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