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Junpeiclover posted...

Ask her if she wants to watch a movie on the couch, then work from there

Yeah, this is what kinda clued me in more then anything (I'd already been kinda thinking it the last few days from things she had said etc), she mentioned we should snuggle in the couch and watch a movie.

Now I set up the living room with a couch for her and her daughter (love seat), and a nice comfy chair next to it for me. Like I said, been all about the friends/roomates and nothing more. Didn't want to invade her space etc.

I think she was wanting me to join her on the love seat yesterday while we watched mothers day, but I just stayed in my chair after we ate dinner there (we both had little tables in front of us).

I probably should have moved over and sat with her, and I think she was waiting for me to, but it seemed ackward to move after I was already sitting etc.

Whole thing is a bit ackward really, which is the problem.

She has been saying she appreciates me, is so happy she has me in her and her daughters life etc for awhile now though, so even someone as clueless as me is finally starting to (I think) understand what she is saying lol.

Problem really is I don't want to push things, but at the same time I don't want to seem disinterested so she gives up and decides we are just going to be friends/roomates or something. It's tricky, but hopefully it will work out.
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