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This is kinda complicated/scary!!

So here is the thing, I've been really careful to keep things just friendly with my roomate, but lately she has been saying things like she really appreciates me, inviting me downstairs (where she lives), and even said we should snuggle and watch a movie (Which we did not do, as we ate dinner while watching a movie and never moved onto the same couch).

I get along great with her daughter and we have made plans for me to watch her this summer (getting my teaching credentials in Washington right now so I can teach next fall), so when her daughter is here we have already been spending more time, acting alot like a family etc.

So yeah, things seem great and I think she is throwing out signals that she wants to be more then friends, but then again I'm horrid at figuring that crap out and she may just really like me and appreciate me cooking etc.

Not gonna stress about it or make it a big deal though, and am just gonna play it light and easy, see if she wants to snuggle while watching a movie tonight or tomorrow (her daughter will be back on Sunday so would be hard to move things forward next week).

We get along great, and I don't wanna mess anything up, but I think I'll just casually give her room to move towards a more romantic relationship if she wants and see what happens.

She has paid me back any money she borrowed and has been responsible for herself, paid rent and utilities and cleans up around the house (much better then me), so has not taken advantage of me etc. i feel like I can trust her, and we get along great, both are fairly close in age and she is not seeing anyone else or anything.

Kinda scary, and it might not work out, but if I don't give it a shot, it certainly won't lol.

Wish me luck!
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