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GODTIER posted...

It's a case by case basis.

Sure, you're less likely to completely open up to someone and truly love them if you don't love yourself, but some people just need a little reassurance from the right person to finally start believing in themselves.

You don't have to be completely 100% ready for a relationship to start one.

You are right though, they should come naturally. They should not be forced. Simply because the ones that occur naturally come when both parties have equal attraction, not necessarily that both parties are content with their lives.

While I kinda get what you're saying, someone who is completely miserable and hates themselves isn't gonna have anything get fixed by starting a relationship. They at least need to be on the path of improving themselves to be who they want themselves to be already.

Bok_Choi posted...

you wouldn't believe the number of cemen who believe you can't have life problems if you're in a relationship

"ce my life is hard right now"

but you're dating that girl tc

"...what"

A lot of people think that relationships are some magic cure for all of your problems. Media doesn't help with that either, there's so many songs that go on about how they need someone to "save" them by loving them or whatever, and that's not how it works. Being with someone you love can absolutely make things better, but it doesn't fix everything.
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