I don't know you, so if this is wrong, just ignore it.
Are your motivations really so pure? I think before you say "That's just who I am" you take a good look at what drives you and makes you feel the things you do, without caring about how dirty it is.
You can't control people man, and you have to let people go or make their own decisions. If she turns around, great. If she doesn't, you learn to move on. I'm not sure it's really her happiness you're mostly concerned about, just based on having not met someone who truly is altruistic like that.
Again, I'm just a stranger looking in, if anything about that resonates, think about it.
If you've heard it all before or don't agree, then that's cool too.
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