From: ShadowHalo17 | #058
And I can't be over her so long as she still loves me, and she does
At the risk of offending you (and by "at the risk of," I mean "I hope you'll be cool with me for saying this later once this is all blown over"), this is the oldest emotional trap in the book. People get caught in this all the time. She is telling you she still loves you and hates what she did because she's afraid of losing you, but believe it or not, that's not the same as loving you.
Breaking up with someone is hard no matter how you feel about them. They literally become a part of your emotional network, and then they're being ripped out. But that makes people say and do things just to prolong the whole ordeal because they're too scared to just break clean. It's like how a kid doesn't want to just yank a band-aid off because it'll hurt, so they just sort of slowly, agonizingly peel it off and end up hurting more than if they'd just ripped it off.
What I am trying to say is that you need to stop thinking she still loves you, no matter what she says. You're in a bad state of mind right now, but once all of this over, you'll feel like a new man, honest to god.
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