It sounds like you were flooded by bots. My guess is that your account can't handle all the IMs going to you, and so it gets an error.
Can you log into any other AOL services? Maybe AOL Mail or something? Or even AIM Express? Have you tried third party clients (Trillian, Pidgin, Meebo, etc.)?
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