Okay, big update
I went to the fire cave and got the ring of fire
then apparently I had to go up north on a board to get the ring of water
theres a dam\bridge thing thats locked so we had to go to a nearby town to open it up
and I find Bianca there! My old ghostbusting childhood friend!
so offers to come and help me get the ring
long story short we go get the ring, once I go back, I'm actually given a choice between Bianca and Nera
and Deborah too, from left field!
Honestly I almost picked her, dat attitude almost turned me on to her
but gotta stay true to the childhood friend, ya know
maybe next playthrough
so I picked Bianca to be my bride
we spent the night together in the villa and woke up to our first day as a couple
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