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Topic	Woman: This is why I always have sex on the first date
Lebronwon 02/01/22 2:14:37 PM #1:	https://nypost.com/2022/02/01/this-is-why-i-always-have-sex-on-the-first-date/ If the cult classic rom-coms we obsessively watched on repeat as teenagers taught us anything, its that you shouldnt have sex on a first date. After all, the key message we were told time and time again was that theyll never see you as serious girlfriend material if you jump into bed straight away. eye roll But even though were old and wise enough to now know that its your compatibility that determines if the relationship will go the distance, this key message is never far from our minds on first dates. One person who is trying to shake this dating myth is sex and relationships writer Mary Rose Madigan. In a personal essay for Mama Mia, the Sydney-based writer said shes actually found it to be a highly effective approach. She explained: Honestly, sleep with a man you are attracted to straight away if you want, its fabulous also its very time efficient. When she first entered the world of dating, Mary says she felt like she had to withhold any kind of intimacy to ensure guys would remain interested in her. This meant she would save sex for the third or fifth date and by that point, she would be pretty romantically entangled with the guy. She added: [This] meant if the sex was bad, or it didnt work, or they were the kind of man that finished within three seconds or didnt truly understand where exactly a vagina is located, I felt stuck. As Mary didnt think bad sex was a big enough reason to break up, she ended up dragging out the relationship even though she felt deeply unfulfilled. After going through this process a few times, it dawned on Mary that something had to change and she decided to stop withholding sex. Describing how it made dating more fun, she added: I wasnt trying to play a strategic game balancing just the right amount of sexy without ever seeming too much. Instead, I was going on what felt right. It was a much more simple and pleasurable system. It also meant I churned through men quicker which was a good thing! As this approach helped Mary weed out the guys shes not compatible with, she said it actually helped her carve out more time for herself, too. Whats more, Mary says it hasnt stopped her from finding love either as she is now in a happy relationship with a guy she slept with on the second date. She added: Now we co-parent a pet chihuahua and live in a tiny terrace together. I didnt even have to withhold sex for all of that to happen. Why? Because I met someone I liked, who liked me and the sexual chemistry was there from the very beginning. https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/7/5/9/AAd-UUAAC4Bf.jpg https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/7/6/0/AAd-UUAAC4Bg.jpg --- Not 1, not 2, not 3, not 4, not 5, not 6, not 7 <cite>Lebronwon posted [p:962274950] in Woman: Thi... [t:79879718]...</cite> <quote>https://nypost.com/2022/02/01/this-is-why-i-always-have-sex-on-the-first-date/ If the cult classic rom-coms we obsessively watched on repeat as teenagers taught us anything, its that you shouldnt have sex on a first date. After all, the key message we were told time and time again was that theyll never see you as serious girlfriend material if you jump into bed straight away. eye roll But even though were old and wise enough to now know that its your compatibility that determines if the relationship will go the distance, this key message is never far from our minds on first dates. One person who is trying to shake this dating myth is sex and relationships writer Mary Rose Madigan. In a personal essay for Mama Mia, the Sydney-based writer said shes actually found it to be a highly effective approach. She explained: Honestly, sleep with a man you are attracted to straight away if you want, its fabulous also its very time efficient. When she first entered the world of dating, Mary says she felt like she had to withhold any kind of intimacy to ensure guys would remain interested in her. This meant she would save sex for the third or fifth date and by that point, she would be pretty romantically entangled with the guy. She added: [This] meant if the sex was bad, or it didnt work, or they were the kind of man that finished within three seconds or didnt truly understand where exactly a vagina is located, I felt stuck. As Mary didnt think bad sex was a big enough reason to break up, she ended up dragging out the relationship even though she felt deeply unfulfilled. After going through this process a few times, it dawned on Mary that something had to change and she decided to stop withholding sex. Describing how it made dating more fun, she added: I wasnt trying to play a strategic game balancing just the right amount of sexy without ever seeming too much. Instead, I was going on what felt right. It was a much more simple and pleasurable system. It also meant I churned through men quicker which was a good thing! As this approach helped Mary weed out the guys shes not compatible with, she said it actually helped her carve out more time for herself, too. Whats more, Mary says it hasnt stopped her from finding love either as she is now in a happy relationship with a guy she slept with on the second date. She added: Now we co-parent a pet chihuahua and live in a tiny terrace together. I didnt even have to withhold sex for all of that to happen. Why? Because I met someone I liked, who liked me and the sexual chemistry was there from the very beginning. https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/7/5/9/AAd-UUAAC4Bf.jpg https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/7/6/0/AAd-UUAAC4Bg.jpg --- Not 1, not 2, not 3, not 4, not 5, not 6, not 7</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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