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INCEPTlON posted...

Weve always felt more like buddies, instead of a couple. When we first got together, we both were recovering from hard times, and we were good and stable for each other, but I feel like the relationship was always based on stability, rather than romance. We both love animals and share common values, but our interests rarely line up and its resulted in very, bland conversation .

I know most married couples eventually get into a routine and excitement fades, but I dont think 5 years in to a marriage is when that should happen, and again, its really been like that for a while now.

This is all perfectly normal tbh. Im not saying that you dont necessarily have a reason to leave this marriage (though as others have implied you probably should work harder to salvage it first), but if your primary motivation is to leave in search of excitement youre in for a rough time.