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Gladius_ posted...

The disconnect is that we are reading something that you aren't. To me it sounds like most of what she has done for you was simply out of obligation. Not because she has feelings for you. This isn't me saying that she was lying to you but after she analized it she came to the conclusion that this is what it was.

You put a lot of money, effort, and time into this. So she put a lot of time into you because she felt bad. Originally she didn't know this was the reason why herself. She made a self discovery when time was brought into the picture.

Sierra and others made the point that if she cared as much as you did.. she would have made time. The time would never have been a problem in the first place.

You are making the right call to pursue an answer (you mentioned awhile back.) and clarify your stance regarding the financial portion. My advice isn't to give up.. I simply hope you prepare yourself for dissapointment and if she does express disinterest in continuing the "relationship" you don't blow up or treat her like a villain.

Not necessarily, I can kinda tell when shes forcing plans and when shes not, its a real difference in the structure of them.

Just recently we where hanging out and I watched as she planned her next day out to the minute to find two hours together, and of course something that was out of her control happened.

Its pretty clear to me at least recently shes not trying to comprise/sacrifice anything, and its not working for her.

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