Sierra is being more blunt than everyone here but the advice posted isn't dissimilar to the advice you have been receiving since the topic has been made. I am not going to reiterate the points multiple posters have said to you but instead tackle an aspect that does bother me.
You are super hung up over the fact that she introduced you to her mother and her friends. I want to be very clear to you that isn't a special feat.
This means you have hit "casual friend" status. Many woman have had zero problem breaking up with men they've introduced to family even after only a week or so of dating them. Remember, this is boyfriends I am talking about which you admitted post 1 you're not even.
As someone who has been in college I promise you she isn't spending every day studying to the point where as soon as she is done she goes to sleep. Human beings need more than that to unwind.
The truth is she may enjoy genuinely hanging out with you but you aren't the only one she is hanging out with. These hang outs may not always be in person. They can be on the phone or on the internet but you aren't her sole focus.
You are one of her many friends. A friend she realized is looking more into this relationship than she is. You getting upset about the time told her that you don't see this as casual as she does. So she put out the breaks.
You don't understand how a woman thinks but this isn't your fault. Most men don't and this is because men live in a different world than woman.
Woman are constantly bombarded by unwanted male advances, have to deal with men who refuse to accept no for an answer, and seem incapable of taking a hint.
Girls are often very careful when rejecting men because if their ego is hurt the drama begins. She isn't likely to just tell you "Back off." in a blunt manner like that because it will just create drama. If you keep pressing she might but to her the message is clear.
You implied in the past to her you saw each other as platonic. This allowed her to open up with you a bit more. However, your upset about the time thing has given her a new message. You see this as more than a platonic arrangement. She told you politely you need to back off some.
There has to be a disconnect here because you guys are going on tangents about things that arent the issues.
Time spent has never been an issue on my part, She thinks I care more about seeing her regularly than I actually do and thats the problem, because shes making plans that she knows itll be extremely hard to keep.
She is the one actively bringing up our relationships status or if Im seeing anyones else. Shes has literally and verbally expressed the fact that shes into me and its a mutual thing, as recently as of this week.
This isnt a question of if she likes me or not, she either does or shes actively lying to me there isnt some grey area where Ima confused 19 year old.
The issue is the Financial imbalance and the fact shes seeing that as an obligation to sacrifice other aspects of her life for Me, despite me never asking for it.
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