she feels like she has to try and see me every weekend and she really doesnt and this is a really recent thing thats only happened in the last 3 weeks.
edit: for what its worth weve both kinda said its casual only because she doesnt have the time investment right now.
Those are red flags, GLARING red flags.
If she liked you, really liked you, she wouldnt have to struggle. She would love to see you.
I know its hard to hear, but you have to move on. Every girl that wanted a relationship to be serious with me, definitely didn't wait 6 months, more like 4 weeks and then demanded exclusivity. Didnt matter if they were in college, post college etc. It was always quick.
Never invest 2000+ in a girl who is casual. Only after you agree to exclusivity do you lavish her with flowers/gifts. Right now shes getting girlfriend privilege's without being a girlfriend.
dude what time do you think a med student who plays D1 athletics has ?
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