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TopicPoll: What should I do about bad behavior from a homeless friend I'm helping?
SableWolfAngel
11/02/21 9:25:05 PM
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Offworlder1 posted...
It's your place, if he can't follow the rules he can be living some place else, you have been way to generous and tolerant with some of that.
He already asked some friends. He wouldn't have been living in his car if he had any other choice. He's also been apartment hunting since day one. I don't want to slip into a mindset of "I'm doing something nice so you owe me everything". I think it's a dangerous way of thinking that leads to entitlement and oppression. I try to consider things from his perspective. He must feel so lost and depressed and scared. His life has been turned upside down. Some normalcy should do him good. Some kindness and hospitality could save him from losing hope altogether.

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