You need to shoot for self improvement, exercise, lift some weights, keep up your hygiene (shower, shave/trim, clip nails, buy some nice cologne, do facial masks, etc). Dress nice (pick a style you like and go with it don't just wear graphic tees and sweats/gym shorts [even jeans are boring sometimes]). Style your hair, you don't always have to brush it straight. I found out my hair looks really nice and curly if I only comb it right after getting out of the shower. Girls love earrings, I started with some cheap magnetic ones off of Amazon but now I'm pierced.
You wore fake earrings and someone had sex with you? FAKE POST NOTHIN TO SEE HERE YALL