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TopicMen who treat women nicely are usually single
Bad_Mojo
08/22/21 9:31:14 PM
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pojr posted...
have you thought about going to a bar and just not drink? all bars are legally required to carry nonalcoholic beverages.

I don't want to be in a position where I'm not drinking and hitting on people that are.

What I need to do is start going to those board game nights and stuff, but if I do that, am I going there to find someone to match up with or to have fun? I honestly want to just have fun and play games and enjoy the company of others, but when I do that, I don't flirt with anyone because I don't want to cross any lines

And even if I were to get a date, the first one in about 17 years, it would just blow up. I have pretty much zero experience in those situations, so I would just treat them like I treat everyone else. I remember one of the only girls I ever dated, I would never try to have sex with her, and she broke up with me because I made her feel ugly. No, I just didn't want to pressure her into it, so we would just hang out with. I let her make the first move with everything, which goes back to what I said earlier

Bad_Mojo posted...
Toxic Masculinity hurts everyone

Because I'm the, "man," I'm the one that's supposed to leading the way. And always trying to fuck girls. And because of how fucked up the world is, I'm sure she was too afraid to make a move because women who want to have fun get slut shammed.

So yeah, I'm pretty sure I will never go on another date in my life. I'm just too wrapped up in my own head, and I have zero experience with women. And I'm alright with that, it makes me depressed, but having a hot girlfriend isn't going to make me feel better, it would make me feel worse because I'm far too used to just being by myself and doing my own thing

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