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TopicI just found out my girlfriend cant have kids.
Giant_Aspirin
07/09/21 11:04:18 AM
#172:


asagi_mode_gone posted...
>trans woman who can't have kids makes post in topic about not being able to have kids, is called heartless
>cis woman (cleo) posts about how she had kids, is praised for being so gentle and caring

The one with a problem here is you.

you got called heartless because you turned it into a topic complaining about how unfair life is for you. basically saying "Yeah thats nice and all but do you have any idea how hard things are FOR ME?"

Cleo responded in a compassionate way and offered suggestions, as others have pointed out, instead of making it all about her, which is what you did. you often respond to cis people's problems with bullshit like this and say things like "oh boo fucking hoo you cis people, do you have any idea how much harder things are for us trans folk? you have no right to complain about any of this when i have it worse". im not saying you're doing exactly that here, but this reductionist attitude you have towards non-trans problems is something i see often and it's pretty gross.

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