LogFAQs > #955897050

I'm not sure what you mean by "too long," but if it was a newer relationship, I'd probably break up with her because if I want to have kids with a partner, I want the child to be a combination of both of our genes because it's specifically a factor in choosing a partner in the first place.

It's different if you've been with somebody a long time because there's a greater level of commitment at that point, but this is like anything that might split up an early relationship.

And while adopting sounds like a workaround, the system is just set up badly in the US and -- because of unfit foster parents -- a lot of nations are screening out American parents (such as when that one couple sent a toddler or something on a flight back to their old country alone or some similarly ridiculous thing that should have got the couple arrested). And then surrogacy is expensive.

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